I'm 18 years old. Huge regret, guilt, loneliness, and many bad memories throughout the years that are going to follow me to my deathbed are causing a major depression.
I'm planning to get psychologist along with right prescription (if need be). What else can I do?
I've never read the Bible before or considered Christianity. Only been to churches few times. Recently I've decided to get into Christianity and at least read the Bible. Would that be a good idea?
I feel bad about being so lonely in communication that I have to use Yahoo Answers. It was the result of years and years of internet and game addiction. Best idea to stop it as much as possible?
I feel very bad. My life goal is now to keep a stable career/job/school progress and stick close to my family.
2007-12-10 05:08:21 · 23 answers · asked by Ithnkgo! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Religion may not always be the answer. I'm sorry you have been through so much. I am a licensed counselor, so feel free to message me if you need to talk.
2007-12-10 05:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Molten Orange 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have been suffering from post partum depression for the past one year when I gave birth to a baby boy. I couldn't stop thinking about how my husband loves him more than me and how things might be better if he wasn't born at all. Thus, I stayed away from him because I knew that I might do something I will regret for the rest of my life.
Almost instantly I went to a therapist and convince them that I need help. Among other things, I've tried herbal supplements and other book to treat depression but nothing works like the Depression Free Method. So now I'm proud to say I'm one of the happiest mother in the world. My husband loves us both very much and I thank the Lord for the blessing he gave us.
Depression Free Method?
2016-05-16 06:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good that you have clear goals and are already considering psychiatric help. Counseling and medicines will make you feel better, maybe sonner that you thought.
Stay away from Bible thumpers. They will mess with those feelings of regret and bad memories you mention.
If you want to read the Bible, it's ok.
If you really should repent from something, talk to a qualified priest or pastor.
Keep your faith. Find a serious church, either catholic or historical protestant.
Your guilt is probably exaggerated.
Are you lonely because you were addicted to computers or you turned to internet and games because youd had difficulty communicating?
2007-12-10 05:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by caulk2005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exercise has been shown to be helpful with depression. Meditation/prayer, eating healthy, and finding uplifting reading or inspiration could help. One has to work at being tough emotionally, it takes time, just like exercise with subtle changes that will add up. Life is a struggle, but that is what develops character over time. Great men have often suffered from depression, but they persevered, overcame their obstacles, and had great achievements. Take one day at a time, and just keep putting forth positive effort. Trust in God and the universe, that in time your continuous effort will pay off. Counseling should help. Try to find a reasonable church, not one that is too rigid. Don't feel like you must believe everything a church teaches, no church is perfect no matter what they claim. But an imperfect church can give you spiritual support and some good spiritual guidance. Nothing in this world is perfect, but thing work to various degrees of effectiveness, and somethings pretty well. So don't expect perfection, just that which will work well enough for your needs.
2007-12-10 05:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your headed in the right direction because you realize you have a problem and you are way to young to have such a weight and burden on your shoulders. Life is about making mistakes, learning from them and hopefully having something good come out of them. However, if you are depressed you won't be able to overcome this on your own. You will need professional help. Please get a psychologist or psychiatrist involved. Routine, stability and support from loving family members will also help you overcome your issues. If you are lonely you may find satisfaction in volunteering or helping others with your knowledge but you need to get yourself mentally healthy first. Best wishes for a joyful Holiday Season!
2007-12-10 05:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gabfest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the bible works for you that's super. everybody desires some thing that comforts them. For me, it is being around animals (and extraordinarily, driving horses). in fact, any form of exercising works as an antidepressant. i've got been depressed for the reason that i improve into 14 (now i'm lots older). Seeing a stable therapist and taking meds has helped incredibly, yet no longer completely. team scientific care is likewise functional (initially i improve into very destructive to being in a team) for the reason which you learn which you're actually not the only one that feels as undesirable as you do.and you hear how persons take care of those thoughts. in case you do no longer choose to bypass to a team, that's quite useful to study some memoirs by ability of persons who've been depressed (my favorites are: Prozac u . s . a . by ability of Elizabeth Wurtzel, Darkness seen by ability of William Styron and Prozac Diary by ability of Lauren Slater). Doing this might make you sense much less remoted. finally, I even have stumbled on that protecting a magazine and writing approximately my thoughts helps me get by quite undesirable classes. And, in case your pals permit you realize to "merely snap out of it", merely throw a e book at them or some thing (in uncomplicated terms kidding - yet, properly-meaning pals and kin who have not suffered from melancholy won't comprehend the adaptation between everyday disappointment and melancholy). i do no longer think of it is plausible to comprehend the intensity of the discomfort of important melancholy till you have experienced it your self.
2016-10-01 07:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by girman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowledge is never a bad idea. read the bible. But mostly, if you are having great regret - talk to God about it. You have some idea in your head about who He is. Go where you are most likely to make a connection with Him (you - not anyone else). It may or may not be in a church. Talk with Him and ask Him to forgive you and help you forgive yourself. Acknowledge your wrong doings and try to make a recompense for them. And find a friend or family member or someone to talk with. Good luck.
2007-12-10 05:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by phrog 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am glad you are going to see a psychologist. Read the Bible and try to find a chruch that has many people your age. The Chruch can teach you about the faith and provide you with a lot of support.
2007-12-10 05:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tessa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depressions, difficulties & problems comes in all people. Even real Christian suffers too.
John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
Just continue studying the words of God in the Bible & you will fell rest to your souls.
Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Matthew 11:29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
Matthew 11:30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
The rest of our souls does not mean we will never encounter any hardships, the rest of souls means whatever problems we face, we are ready to face them with GOD's help.
To be succesful in all we do. We must prioritize this:
Matthew 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
GOD bless.
2007-12-10 05:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait and discuss with your psychologist.
In the meantime understand that all the things you feel as "bad" are things that are changing and impermanent. It will pass, and the psychologist will give you opportunities for counselling and if you need meds. You need to cultivate compassion for yourself too.
All things arise due to causes and conditions. Not all of us have had all the causes and conditions to ease our lives into happiness, so that's why I say, be patient with yourself.
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2007-12-10 05:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by vinslave 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're considering Christianity, you should find a good church and study with them.
If you're considering Christianity because you think it will cure your depression, don't! Get some counseling. Christianity is no guarantee that you'll be happy.
2007-12-10 05:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by Uni Lib 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋