My baby is almost 5weeks old now and I have a toddler who is 2 in 3weeks time. The thing is I cant seem to stop the urge to cry, it just comes over me at various times of the day and it is so hard to stop it. I cant seem to relax either, I feel constantly uptight and on edge and I have a constant headache because of it. I am feeling so low and desperate for something, but I dont know what, its driving me crazy! What is wrong with me?
2007-12-10 03:59:18 · 24 answers · asked by angelcakes 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
your hormones have been through a lot in the past 9 months. it sounds like a bit of post natal depression which is very normal - even jordan got it. it's best to seek help though as it can lead to other things. Have a chat to your health visitor.. don't worry she'll have heard it a thousand times before.
2007-12-10 04:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by RosieLea 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is either post natal depression or the hormones still moving round your body did you feel this way after your first baby? go to the doctors get family and friends to help out dont try and deal with things alone it will make things ten times worse famous people have had post natal depression brooke shields and jordan both had it so dont feel you are weird or it could only happen to you as its very common good luck:) chin up
2007-12-10 12:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by cooeeitsmee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everything about a new baby 'must' be a positive, so family, friends, and the world tell us.
I suggest, although children are priceless, there are also negatives to having a child. More responsibility, and the fear this brings, loss of freedoms and so on. Maybe this is why you cry. Tears clean the soul, don't stop them. I wish you and your family well. Terry.
2007-12-10 12:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by terrysains 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you....don't forget, you have a 5 week old child and your hormones are all over the place...it's called the baby blues...have a chat with your midwife, she may be able to give you something that will help...i went through the same thing, i cried my eyes out weeks after each of my kids were born, my body was changng and my hormones were playing havock on me....hope you feel better soon
2007-12-11 06:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie. it's no wonder you're on edge and crying. you're dealing with a new babe and a toddler and odds are, you're suffering a bit of post partum depression, and it's christmas time. talk about stressful ! this is actually very normal. it happens to many women. talk to your ob about it. it's very treatable and there's no reason for you to feel like this when there is help available. don't let it get out of hand though. p.p. depression can get worse if you don't take care of it.
2007-12-10 12:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like postpartum depression. It's completely normal to have some "baby blues" after the birth of a baby, but it sounds like yours may be a little more than that. Please talk to your doctor about this. It can make your life very miserable if you don't get treatment. Good luck!!!
2007-12-10 12:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by gendaisy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you at all. What you do need is a break. I think every mom needs to have at least ONE day a week all to herself. On that day you eat lunch with friends or get your hair done, ect. If you cant afford a sitter for one day a week then one night a week your husband needs to watch the kids so you can go to a movie or something.
Also dont loose the romance with your husband! It is so important to still date your spouse even after your married with kids! I think changing these two things will help you feel so much better! Best of Luck! :)
2007-12-10 12:05:02 · answer #7 · answered by MadKat 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well it may pass, it's normal to be emotional after having a baby but it depends on the extreme of it. You may want to visit your doctor, you may need some help to get past this.
2007-12-10 12:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by ME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Post natal Depression.. You need to go and see Your GP. they will point you in the right direction.. Take Care. Good Luck.. x
2007-12-10 12:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa Lou <3 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Postpartum - baby blues. It's your hormones readjusting after being pregnant. You might need to talk to a professional or get some medication. Nothing is wrong with you, it's normal.
2007-12-10 12:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by Precious 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋