she controls me, tells me what to do with my life and im 17. i want birth control but NO i cant get it now cos he says i have to see the nurse next week to talk about it, and she cant understand you have to get it on your period.
We moved to a town so i could be near my boyfriend, she now blames me for my dad not getting a job and the money going down cos of me, and " that crappy boy" (my boyfriend).
Shes the worse mother ever, tells me im a shitty daughter, Yells at me and threaten that i should go away before she hits me.
she through the present to my boyfriends parents in my direction, nearly hitting me.
All of this over my contraception. i feel like running away but there is no where to go.
help...
2007-12-10 03:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by Just_Call_Me_Shady 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Been there...I just worked really hard and saved up....as soon as I was old enough and had the funds and a job I bailed. I was 18 when I left. I just ate sh!t for as long as I had too to get away. Things are better now, though regardless of my hardships I have never moved back in with her.
2007-12-10 03:12:09 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 07:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about that. I lived that way for about 7 years. It is all over now. Me and my mother went into counseling together. It was awkward at first but now it's better. We play games and go shopping together. Not everything is better. She still blames me for almost everything. But, she stopped calling me a slut and *****. I was adopted by her when I was 3. Maybe you should try this. If it doesn't work and you feel like running away, think really hard about it. There are many places you can go to for help. Try threatening her with social services. That's how me and my mom got free counseling.
You can email me at alyssashaine@yahoo.com.
2007-12-10 03:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be on your period to start birth control. You are misinformed. Are you referring to Depo Provera? They would like for you to be on your period but it is not mandatory. Stop whinning and see the nurse next week. Why would your parents move you closer to your bf? They have some issues if this truly was the reason.
2007-12-10 09:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down somewhere and listen to your mother. there is a cold world out there. She is trying to protect you.
Before you concentrate on prescription birth control. Remember condoms are more important. Buy and bring your own. Stop focusing so much on pregnancy and worry about the bigger picture. your age group has the fastest growing number of new HIV cases.
and if I were here, i wouldn't have moved anywhere to be near your bf. That is totally unfair and teaching you the wrong things. To change your life around for a man. It's lame and a bad habit to pick up at a young age.
2007-12-10 03:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by sweetestnectar25 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're right: run away, get away from that witch. The world owes you a living, so get out there and collect.
Pack your bags, leave today. Hurry!
2007-12-10 03:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
she cant be that bad. she moved so YOU could be closer to your boyfriend?
put up with it for one more year then you can do whatever you want.
2007-12-10 03:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋