ok... theres this guy i really like in ma music class ... hes 7 years older than be... the problem is, there are galz hu r hotter and more good lookin than me in ma class... these galz already hv a guy but they keep flirtin - actually more than just flirtin - with the guy i like... please give advice on how attract this guy towaeds myself and make him pay more attention towards me??? thanks a lot 4 the help...;)
2007-12-10 02:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by Aalia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this in College? Cause if he's 7 years older and it's not college then it's probably never gonna happen.
2007-12-10 02:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lala Bush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when all theze girls r flirtin, u shud look over and if he looks back, give him a really sexy smile!keep doing small things like that to bring him closer to u, but dont go way too over the top!he'l soon 4get bout them girls nd be 100% focused on you!!!!you could even drop ur number on his desk or something!or a cute letter askin 4 help with simething to do with music class!!!!good luck!
2007-12-10 03:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off dont worry about who is hotter than you second you should not try to trick some one into liking you, its fake and he will find it out down the line.
just keep it simple, talk to the guy, show interest and see how he responds to that.
remember you cant always get what you want all the time. thats the bad news in this situation but there is good news as well. he is not the only guy around.
2007-12-10 03:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by out of control 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY HELLO AND INTRODUCE YOUR SELF THAT IS WHAT IS GREAT ABOUT LIBERATION, WOMEN CAN DO THIS TODAY AND BE CALLED BEING TOO FORWARD.
IF HE TALKS THEN FINE IF NOT GIVE IT TIME, IF NOT HE IS NOT WORTH THE TALK.
IF NOT WALK ON AND LOOK ELSEWHERE. DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS TO BE COMPROMISED.
CASE IN POINT A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE WANTED A GUY SOOOO BAD. SHE USED A WHOLE LOT OF MAKE UP(LIKE THE OTHERS HE WAS ATTRACTED TO), WORE SHORT MINI SKIRTS, LOW CUT BLOUSE, CUT HER WAIST LENGTH HAIR INTO A PIXIE CUT, FELL IN LOVE AND GOT MARRIED. ONLY TO GET DIVORCED ABOUT 3 MONTHS LATER. HE LEFT HER FOR ANOTHER CHEAP TRICK. SHE HAS NEVER GOTTEN OVER HOW SHE CHANGED FOR HIM. WHAT SHE FORGOT IS YOU CAN CHANGE OUTWARDLY ALL YOU WANT, BUT THE REAL YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE DEEP DOWN INSIDE OF YOU.
2007-12-10 03:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by ahsoasho2u2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont flirt, be confident, and act as if you dont care if you see him or not. If hes really hot this will be so different from all the desparate chicks hes used to.
Get your hair changed big time, style it up, small talk, but DO NOT FLIRT or GO GUSHY.If he asks you out, laugh. Be coy, act as if you know something he doesnt..Be happy and exciting, yet quiet, guys dont like loud chicks, just be so vauge he NEEDS your attention. Dont just give it, wait for him to be hangin." I bet he is chasing YOU within a month, trust me, it works. ;)
2007-12-10 03:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 07:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him to catch his attention. Because all others are already making efforts to attract him. He is bound to notice you and start gravitating towards you.
2007-12-10 03:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Naamoku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh first of all please dont do that dont go so low if he doesnt notice u dont force it a real lover will notice u, just like u notice him ok forget everything i said and give up unless u have skills to make it happen if not why even waste time?
2007-12-10 03:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by matdoor1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, looks aren't everything. But if you are not very hot, and you can't even type, then what do you have to offer?
Go back to english lessons.
2007-12-10 02:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidance is the key. don't pay attention to those girls.. only the guy.
so that means you have to talk to him a little more+when these girls talk to him interrupt (not rudely) and join the convo.
2007-12-10 02:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by pokerface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋