WHAt IS UP WITH WOMEN AND THEIR HIGH STANDARD ********?

Question

WHEN WILL YOU REALIZE THAT THERE IS NO SUCH THIS AS HIGH OR LOW STANDARDS? ITS SERIOUSLY ANNOYING! YOU PASS UP SO MANY GOOD GUY TRYING TO FIND THAT ONE GUY WHO MEETS YOUR HIGH STANDARDS AND HE TURN OUT TO BE SO MUCH WORSE D:< GET IT THROUGH YOU HEADS THAT MR. PERFECT GUY IS NOTHING BUT A 5 YEARS OLDS FANTASY. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A EXTREMELY GOOD LOOKING GUY WITH A PERFECT BODY THAT IS HONEST AND CARING AND LOVING AND ETC D:< US MEN WHO ARE NATURALLY STUPIDER UNDERSTOOD THIS FASTER AND WE GO FOR WHAT WE CAN GET.. WE SETTLE FOR YOU EVEN IF YOU ARE FAT UGLEH AND YOU ARE HIDEOUS KNOWING THAT THE PERFECT WOMAN IS IN YOUR MIND AND NOT REAL. ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME. D:< WHY CANT YOU BE MORE CONSIDERATE TOWARDS US D:<

get this we may talk about big chests and big butts.. but take a good look at who we end up with.. its almost always a chick who dont have big breasts or big butts but rather the one that gave us a chance and understood us D:<

get this we may talk about big chests and big butts.. but take a good look at who we end up with.. its almost always a chick who dont have big breasts or big butts but rather the one that gave us a chance and understood us D:<

and no i didnt get dumped i just got real angry cuz of some really stupid question on yahoo answers and also a phone call i just got from one of my female friends! and one more thing
even if you are not fat and ugly now wait till you are 50 you'll get fat and ugly in no time.. and a guy like me will still be there with you where as your high standards guy will have left you for a wife thats younger than his daughter!

Answer 1

Unfortunately these days most women are so stuck-up or stuck on themselves it's pathetic. They are what people where I live call Plastic people. They have no consideration for others at all, absolutely no sense of humor, no personality & think they are so much better than everybody.
When will they realize the truth......never. I agree with what you said except for the "stupider" part. You are by no means stupid...it is you who are the smart guys.....you except people for the person they are, and what's inside. There are guys who are the same way but all the good people seem to find each other eventually. I have a group of friends, guy's & girls ...and we look at the Snooty ones n laugh. We know how to have fun & treat people. Hope this helps. =o} It was nice answering an intelligent question..... Have a star!! Yes, we all have standards but there are those who's standards are way to extreme & let life pass them by because they are all about the $$$ and the P/C crap. They think the rest of us aren't good enough for them. S*cks to be them.

Answer 2

Hmmmm . . . well. for your information, I lowered my standards for a few years and married this guy who did everything he possibly could to me--and I took it. He lied, he cheated, just all those wonderful things a man can do to show what an upstanding fellow he is. But finally he got a woman pregnant and divorced me--after I had supported him and stood by him through thick and then for 22 years. I was heartbroken. But guess what?

I met somebody else. Somebody who met my standards and had the same ones that I do. High standards? I don't know. Maybe if you consider honesty and integrity, someone with morals and ethics, somebody who is trustworthy and monogamous, having high standards, well I have them and so does he.

Nothing wrong with having a few standards, my friend. Maybe you should try having some of your own. I'd start by learning not to yell at people! THAT is incredibly rude.

Answer 3

Well that's just kind of sad. Sorry if you've had a bad experience.

Women without standards wind up getting the crap beaten out of them by some gorilla.

And men are worse than women in this regard. All they ever talk about is how big the chest and long the legs and blond the hair. The road goes both ways, 'fella.

Answer 4

As a Black woman. I would say YES, I do have some high standards when looking for a man. Gosh, shouldn't ALL woman think this way ? I mean if you are going to settle down and have kids with someone... Wouldnt you want someone that is SLIGHTLY perfect. I mean not all men are gonna have my standards& wants. But, you should at least try finding someone that will respect you & love you no matter what.

Answer 5

First stop with all the caps its super hard to read.

You sound like you have just been told that you are not good enough for a woman because of your looks, or the amount of money you have. First of all not all women are like that, you need to realize this. Second if you want to settle, then settle, but don't be upset because she doesn't want to settle for less than what she feels she deserves, because if she does then you both will be miserable.

Answer 6

uh, dude. i go out with guys that are nice, ok. i dont judge on how a man looks unless he is just plain out *** ugly. I wouldn't turn down a great guy that i knew. Every woman has in her eye an idea of the perfect man, and usually, that standard is set up to a man that she looks up to during her childhood. Her role model for a future man, is usually her father. Which means that the perfect guy is out there.

Answer 7

I agree with almost everything you say, but the line ab out "we settle for you even if you are fat, ugly and hideous" really bothers me. You know what? Looking for the perfect person will cause you to miss the diamond in the rough, but I would never say someone was fat, ugly and hideous. That's very cruel.

Answer 8

WOW you have a lot of anger in you. My boyfriend isn't perfect but I still love him. When I met him after 2 weeks he asked me out. I said yes because he was kind and sweet to me and I was attracted to him. I'm the type of girl who gave every man a chance. There are other girls out there like me who give guys a chance. A lot of girls like the personality of a guy before the looks. Looks are just a bonus! Good luck!

Answer 9

Yea I agree.....Stupid fantasies passed on to me by decades of women before me, wasn't soon before I realized there's no such thing as Mr. Perfect or Right/Soul Mate/Prince Charming/blah blah blah.....
All women are not the same. I HATE WHEN GUYS SAY THAT BU11SH*T!!!

Answer 10

YOU ARE SO RIGHT!! I'm A female and I hear what your saying... Some of these girls think that they can criticize guys and hold out for the perfect gut,,,THEY seem to think that they have no faults,,,,, WRONG. I've heard girls say things like "I don't like his teeth,,, too much hair on his chest... etc...AND they are not all that,,they need to look at the guy and not put him under a magnified glass and examine themselves first. there are a lot of nice guys out there ,They need to give the not-so-perfect guys a chance,,,Hang in there,,,not every female is a bitc* >>>>>>>>>