I was about to get engaged with a girl and my mom didnt like the girl. So, she stopped and said we will wait to see a better girl. But I liked that girl very much. Before my mom could make a decision, that girl's parents got a good guy for her and got her married. Now, I feel very frustrated and am very angry on my mom for spoiling my life. I feel like killing myself and punishing her. What do you think?
2007-12-09 22:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
hey, people think i am too young. I am 27+ years old.
2007-12-10 15:05:46 · update #1
So, who has to live with the choice: you, or your mother? Grow up: be a man, and make your own decisions from now on! Forget revenge: that's immature and unhelpful to your future.
2007-12-09 22:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should really control yourself. Do you know that your mom tried very hard to give birth to you?
Just go and find another woman. She is not worthy to you and can't compare with you due to your qualities. You are much better than her.
Anyway, don't bother avenging your mom cause she is doing it for your own good
I used to be really very angry with my mum because she always scold me but soon I got over it, and I stopped being angry because my mind was pre-occupied with an instrument which I like, erhu and I stopped thinking of how to "punish" her but instead tried to make her learn.
I hope you can get married soon.good luck
2007-12-10 09:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are mistaken. Your mother did not spoil your life. Your mother is right. there are other girls. If this girl loved you all that much she wouldn't have married someone else. So are you going to kill yourself or punish her? I understand your frustration but quit being angry at your Mom.
2007-12-10 06:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you 14 or something..Why is mom making desisions for you? Just do what you want and stop thinking about killing your mom. You are the one allowing her to run you so I can only assume you are too young to run yourself.
2007-12-10 06:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control of your own life? I don't know about you, but I decide who I date, no body else. Your mom should be concerned about whether or not the girl you're dating makes you happy, and nothing else.
2007-12-10 06:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Seattle_Slacker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kill self about the stupidest thing you can do dont solve nothing--give it some time sounds like there is more to this story than you let on--take time to sit back andlook at the whole story again--something isnt right--the girls parents have married her off to someone else ?
2007-12-10 06:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by southarkansas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it probably wasn't meant to be since your ex-gf parents found her another guy, i mean why would she go with this other guy in the first place if she was with you in a "pause"
moms instincts are usually good.
sorry this had to happen though, hope things turn out better for you!
2007-12-10 06:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Marsea 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell your mother to imagine if her parents had your fathers parent sspoken that way pf her and she really was a good girl
and it hurts that your own mother that it hurts that she ruined that relationship for you ad from now own she can keep her nose away
2007-12-10 06:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by smittnlittlkitn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Gay !
Gay = NO Grandchildren!
(ps if i see to gays walking down the road pushing a Pram and they tell me the chiled was concived the natural way then ill belive)
2007-12-10 06:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Peter Griffin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you must be very young and immature.
2007-12-10 07:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋