i was at a party recently.. i passed out in my friends bed (former now...) and i awoke to him molesting me.. i dont even know what to do, i never wana speak to him again.
2007-12-09 18:48:55 · 16 answers · asked by masterpoopthrower 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes, i am a guy and so was he. i'll just let you guys draw your own conclusions on this one..
2007-12-09 18:56:56 · update #1
go to the police, NOW. this is serious. write down everything you know and remember. find any witnesses. this is not okay. see if you have any evidence. it's never too late to report it but the sooner you do, the more physical evidence will be on you and the better. do not think it is your fault because it is NOT. you can put yourself in safer situations but you are NOT to blame for this, so if anyone tells you this, do not listen. even if you put yourself in a compromising position by drinking or doing drugs, this guy had no right.
good luck.
2007-12-09 18:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Fitz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you need a sexual health check (blood test) through your doctor or health clinic. I think you need to confront your ex-friend and tell him that is not what you would of expected of a friend if you were in a unconscious state. I would also advise him to seek some therapy as he may have a sexual addiction. You could also do with some therapy so your not scared for life. All the best
2007-12-09 18:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by dawson_brister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor, then you should report the incident immediately. If you don't, then this person is free to do the same thing to someone else. This isn't funny or cute. Molestation on any physical level is serious and should be reported. You are in my thoughts.
2007-12-09 18:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report it to the police. This was a crime. This was not done with your permission. You might want to see a therapist to sort through your feelings on this to be able to let it go and eventually get on with your life.
2007-12-10 02:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happend to me and we drifted apart your friend had no right to do that to you if you can hang out with other friends instead and join a self esteem class because when we are vunrable we send out signals to other people who don't know any better but to take advantage.
2007-12-09 20:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by bone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i know this is embarrassing, but you didnt cause it. I would say to go to the police, but you were obviously heavily drunk or on something, in that case they will not sympathise. It's your word against his, approach him and tell him how disgusted you are in him.
2007-12-09 19:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
REPORT IT. then egt tested cus u never no what he may have. i no its kinda embrassing 2 report it but u have 2. you shouldnt speak 2. PLZZZZ REPORT IT N GET TESTED.
2007-12-09 21:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by DapJul00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell soemone about it
iys gonna be hard get it off ur cheast
and tahts sick r u a guy?
2007-12-09 18:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, that's gotta be awkward. you should leave him pretty much alone, but kill his reputation by bringing it up in conversastion with your other friends.
2007-12-09 18:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the police... no one has the right to do inappropriate things to you. it's against the law.
and if this is affecting your daily life, please seek help...
2007-12-09 20:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋