I lost my bf to .. suicide. I feel somewhat to blame for upsetting him but there was also other reasons aswell not involving me. We lived in diff towns and didnt see each other much but whenever we could we did. We texted and msged and talked on the phone, we were so close.We were dating for about 6months then broke up and were still really close and then got back together a couple months ago. I just right feel horrible right now, I wish i was in that car with him. Im not looking for sympathy but help. I feel dead inside.
2007-12-09 18:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by Bekee M 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are not responsible for your boyfriend's suicide. Suicide is rough on everybody who is left. Everybody goes through questions. But, you cannot take this on. I'm sorry you have to go through this. You might want to seek a therapist to talk about what happened and how you are feeling. It would help.
2007-12-10 02:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to talk to a professional about this. You are never resposible for anyone commiting suicide. Please get help from someone and talk to someone about what you feel.
Think about when he killed himself how painful it was to you.
Imagine the pain you would be inflicting on the people you loved if you did the same thing. Nothing is worth that, to you and the people that love you. Life is worth living, and things will get better, and cliche and cheesy and that sounds. I am speaking from someone who has sucide attempts herself. There is nothing to come back from after that, and only more pain with attempts. Life is so worth it to stick around for, as messed up as life can be, because there is alot of good stuff in life too.
2007-12-09 18:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by xxeastbaycorexx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one here can give you the help you need. Go see a doctor asap!
Don't mess around. Get off the computer and talk to a parent or some one you trust and get to a hospital before you feel worse
2007-12-09 18:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by michael m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. No matter what you did or did not do, the choice to commit suicide was his and his alone. He could have reached out for help, but didn't. He coped out. Remember we all do the best we can do day by day.
2007-12-09 18:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by W258 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one its not your fault ! you didnt drive that car you did not tell him to do it and it you had a long distance relationship those are hard on people anyway but you are going to feel bad for awhile i did for a yr after my mom died see a counselor if you need to but dont just sit there talk to any one your parents his parents they feel the loss too so you can help them by gathering together to remember him and his love
2007-12-09 18:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by helen m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just prey hes ok just prey and make sure u dont i mean dont put ur self down. u will be with him again.
2007-12-09 18:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋