I'm going to get my own room and sleep on the bed provided with the tv provided. I'm getting a killer deal on the room. But what should I ask, do or be aware of before moving in? They appear to be very nice people and I am as well. But I just want the process to be smooth and comfortable for everyone, no hidden things, no wierd pet peeves, etc. I have never moved in with people so I am a little nervous but at the same time really excited. Thanks.
2007-12-09 16:24:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
ask for the house rules like common areas and time available for you like when to use the kitchen or when you have to clean the rest room ,your parking spot ,your side on the refrigerator and fridge !where its your food storage !how often you or them have to buy toilette paper if you don't have a Private rest room good luck and dont use drugs in the house !!!
2007-12-09 16:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by mr w 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk things over with them BEFORE you move in. Find out what is expected of YOU! Rules need to be established about the kitchen, laundry, and bathroom. When you are sharing a house, and you are not the owner, they are the ones who should be voicing their opinions. Of course, you have concerns, too, so you need to make sure you aren't stepping on their toes.
Sharing the kitchen can be iffy if each doesn't clean up after using it. Will you be eating any meals with them, or fixing your own? Buying your own food, or buying food together? Certain days for you to do laundry, or just when they aren't using the washer? Will you share the living room, or do they expect you to stay in your room in the evening all the time? What if you want to have company? Is there room in your room for them to sit and visit? If you have a boyfriend, what about over night visits if that is what you want?
Write down your questions and make sure you understand what they expect of you, and if you can live with it. Don't wait till you move in and then not like things. And after you do move in, if something comes up that irritates you, talk about it right away so it can be solved. Don't let it build up till you are angry!
Sounds like a nice deal for you. But just get the rules straightned out first, to avoid problems in the future!
Good luck!
2007-12-10 00:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree, find out what the expectations are on the common areas.... And find out if you will be sharing expenses (like household goods, food, utilities... etc.). Find out about visitors... if there are times you will be restricted, or if it's all good anytime to have someone over (or a small group).
And quiet times?? What time would you have to tone down the noise and activities?
Also, if there are any curfews, or if it's just use your good judgement.... I (personally) wouldn't want someone to come home after 11pm (at latest) even though they are renting a room from me....
Parking....
Cleaning....
Laundry (or would you have to go to a laundromat)? ...
Are you allowed to install a lock on the room you are renting, for privacy purposes?
The list goes on and on.... think of stuff you would do if you were on your own, and ask them how they feel about it... what would be ok with them....
Good luck. Sounds like you are on the right track.... wanting to be informed before you move in. :o)
2007-12-10 05:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by moomommy24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be candid and ask them-tell them you really want the room and want it to be as pleasant as possible for all concerned.
Some usual difficulties are noise problems, cleaning up disagreements and $ (like do they expect you to share cost of shared items such as TP?). If everyone's expectations are out in the open, any conflict can almost always be compromised on. If it can't, do you really want to live there?
2007-12-10 00:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by barbara 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've never rented a room, but things I would think about are things live rules on visitors, any kitchen rights, or any other room......?
2007-12-10 00:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bonnie C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just bring a pair of headphones and an ipod so you have something to listen to while the couple is having sex!
2007-12-10 00:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by byrdsfan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They could be Mr. and Mrs. Sweeney Todd.
2007-12-10 00:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by realst1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋