i dont think i will ever find the right guy!?

Question

i admit i am not the skinniest little person but i do got looks..... why do a lot of guys care about size or looks.... do u think i will find a guy soon?? what kinda of guys should i look for?? because my longest bf was for a week! it sux and its pathetic

Answer 1

I agree it sucks, but it's not pathetic. Girls who are desperate and who will do anything to get a date and a husband are pathetic. Live your life, work on your goals and your dreams, and you will meet the right guy one day. You have to live your life. Waiting around for someone to make you happy is extremely unattractive.

When I met my husband I was a size 16 and pretty hefty. I thought I'd never get a date until I lost weight, even though I had already lost 20 pounds when I met him. My husband said he fell in love with me because he thought I was attractive even though I was overweight and because he loved my personality. He said I'm the only girl he ever met who made his shyness disappear. And did I mention that I met my husband when I was 35?

I was lonely and felt out of place and ugly, but my husband was worth the wait. And by the way, I've lost a lot more weight since then, and my husband says he never expected me to lose weight, and he considers my weight loss an extra bonus. This is what unconditional love is, and if this is what you really want, be patient about love and earnest about living and pursuing your dreams.

Also, I met my husband at a luncheon put on my a mutual friend of ours. We had never met before that. You never know when or how the right one will come along, so I always tell girls to make sure you look your best and wear a decent outfit even at the grocery store. I shudder to think that if I had decided to throw on any old thing and put my hair up in a ponytail on the day I met my husband, he might be married to someone super skinny!

Answer 2

It is most guys nature to find the best looking girl rather than personality. The guys usually just get what the can out of the best looking and then move on to the next. You need to save what you have. Don't tell him everything about yourself and don't get too physical too soon. This will lengthen the relationship. Save what you have and let it pour out one at a time. An example is if you tell him all your hobbies and everything about yourself in one night, he won't find you interesting. It would be better to save what you have because he may not like a quality and he will be more likely to stay with you longer. Try flirting to get a guy's attention.

Answer 3

I wouldn't feel bad sometimes I don't think I will ever find the right woman/girl either sometimes a nice one comes along but then things end anyway cause of just differences in life or they were just fake and not as great as they made them selves out to be. Just be patient I know it's hard nut it's worth it sometimes you have to go through a lot of rotten eggs before you can make the perfect omelet

Answer 4

At least you got to try guys, I don't even get dates with girls, I suck more than you, I have a new car, a decent job, I'm almost done with my career, I'm 22, I go to the gym everyday , I dress decent and it seems that everyone is either taken or they are strangers that are not willing to meet other strangers.

Answer 5

you sound young... around the age of 12-14. get over it

guys are so freaking immature at this age you wont even believe it. once they get some feelings and learn to treat a girl right, thats when you should start lookin for a bf.

dont worry bout that 'one special guy' until your in your 20's lol.

trust me he will come

and besides... you do want a guy that will like you for who you are, right? patience, my darling, patience

-♥-

Answer 6

hey guess what.. i am reallyu really skinny tooo i mean really people look at me but you know what my mom told me that even though that person doesn't like their size that will be okay... cause you have a lot of time to find your true love cause there are a bunch of people that is waiting for you. =]