how do you figure out who you are?

Question

how do you figure out who you are

Answer 1

You live and observe. Notice what makes you happy and what doesn't. Learn how your work and feel best. The unexamined life is not worth living, someone said. Just get out there and do it - and then think abou it.

Peace!

Answer 2

I think is takes time and ALONE time to find out who you really are, and what you WANT to
BE.
My advice, no matter what age you are, is to turn out all the lights, or maybe have a small light not near you, sit in your most UNcomfotable chair, reflect directly on yourself and what you have done in the past, that you wish you had done differently, and what what you want to do in the future.
Fantasize about who you want to be. Look back at what you used to be, and try to find a bridge somewhere that you can cross to make it to the fantasy life you want.
When my husband died, I thought I was going to die too, but, I had to build a bridge and cross over it, to save myself and my kids.
You CAN do it. At first is was fantasy, then through hard work, and alot of tears and prayers, it is realality.

Answer 3

Here's an easy task - list down all the things you like and the things you don't like. List down the traits and behavior you think you have that's positive and the negative as well. List down what you think of religion, marriage, kids, parents, friends and life. List down what your dreams are and the things you'd like to achieve. Make a journal then after a few weeks, re-read them, you'll figure out who you are.

Answer 4

Everyday you figure out who you are.. when you interact with people at work, school, or home.. how you speak or how you think.. how you feel about certain things.... who raises you as a child and into a adulthood.. ......you just have to pay attention to what is going on with you to understand who you are becoming...

Answer 5

With time and age, you will understand. Just let life roll out naturally and don't think too much, because when you are thinking too much, you can't find the answer.
:)

Answer 6

Look at your origin: God created you. Why? He created you for a purpose. He has a special plan for your life. Get to know the Lord and you will get to know the plan He has for your life.

Answer 7

YOu get in touch with your soul. You spend time thinking about what you want in life and what it will take to get there. You meditate. You live life to the fullest and never hod back. You think about your mistakes and what you learned from them. You think about your strengths and weaknesses.

Answer 8

you'll have a moment. a feeling that tells you everything. you'll know why you're here, where you're supposed to go, and what you're supposed to do. i havent found that moment yet, and right now, life isnt worth it anymore, but i'm still here to pass the time. someone important to me once told me that this moment would happen, and i'm just waiting. i suggest you wait too.

Answer 9

put yourself in different situations and don't be afraid to experience new things. this is how you will find the true you. i am still trying to find myself, and it can be so frustrating at times. i guess all i can do is wish you luck :D

Answer 10

huh? I guess you look at your friends and family, likes and dislikes, interests and quarks, your surrounding for the answer. It's mostly true when they say "you are a product of your environment".