this could be long but absolutly need help.I like this boy whos is in 4 of my classes.sometimes he'll walk me to my locker and next class.But sometimes when we walk together he'll feel my hands and we'll hold hands for 5 seconds then let go.Or he'll hold me. the crazy thing is, he alwasys notices the smalI or cute things I do.He knows how to make me laugh or how to get my attention and he knows I can't get mad at him because he makes me laugh to much .Sometimes, I can feel him looking at me.I sometimes flirt with other guys infront of him...and he'll either mess with one of my friends or keep quiet.But the thing I don't like about him is one minuet he'll be all over me then the next he won't.Like he won't walk me to my next class.Ever since he's been giving me hot and cold, I don't walk with him as much anymore.Does that have something to do with it?I just don't know if he likes me or not..does he?
2007-12-09 13:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only reason why I flirt with other guysis to make him jealous..because sometimes I see him flirting or joking with other girls
2007-12-09 13:59:05 · update #1
Dont play games! You like him or you dont like him...no inbetween. If you dont like the things he's doing, move on.
2007-12-09 14:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by BigShot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does.
physical Signs if a boy likes you
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
You two sound like an excellent couple. Maybe the reason he isn't walking you to your next class is he is afraid he will be late to his class. Many different reasons could apply. You need to watch for these physical signs and see if he likes you are not. Good luck and I hope you have your first kiss soon!
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2007-12-09 14:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by computer whiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Jealousy is caused by a lack of trust.
If you are doing things to make him jealous you are showing him that you can not be trusted.
If you can not make this relationship work without the jealousy stuff, you should not be pursuing this relationship.
Both of you need to be in a position where, no matter what, you can trust each other. To proceed without this trust is to invite dysfunction in your relationship. Relationships are hard and require work without the drama. Why complicate your life?
2007-12-09 14:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and you wonder why you can't figure out what is going on, girl?! Gee, who is flirting with someone else first to make the other one jealous? Was it you, or him? You see how crazy that sounds, when someone else says it! Quit flirting with someone else "to make him jealous", stop messing with his head, quit playing games, and be honest. Then give it time to set things right, then TALK to him.
2007-12-09 14:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your giving him hell i think even if u don't notice it. He probably can't deside if u like him or not because as u saw he notices the small things. When u say or act anything different or whatever to another guy or when u flirt with anyone else he thinks u dont like him and u like them. he doesn't know what to do and gives up but later he forgets about it and its all goo dagain. u got to let him know u like him or try not to act like u do with him with other people and he should notice. when he acts diffrent to other girls and u notice he might be doing it to see if u care or not to see if u like him .
2007-12-09 14:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by xirekaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋