he is really nice and sweet..and we hav only kissed..and i dont know if he will want to go further though..i mean i dont want to...and i dont even know when we would hav time to..but should i be worried.?????
2007-12-09 13:57:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want to, then don't, regardless of what he may want. Your body is a precious thing and doesn't deserve to be violated by some randy little teenager.
2007-12-09 14:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very important and not something to be rushed into, especially if it is not something you are comfortable doing just yet. If you believe that waiting until you are married is what you want to do, you should not allow someone else to pressure you into compromising those values. If he does pressure you, than he is not worthy of that special gift you can only give once. In addition to sex being an extremely special experience between two people, it can also have several consequences that you are not ready to deal with (STDs, pregnancy, and the possible social label of a "whore"). Basically, you can only lose your virginity once, and you are right in taking time to think about this. Please talk with an adult you are close to that you consider trustworthy even if you think they may not be too open to your plans. They might surprise you and have some valuable insight for your predicament.
2016-04-08 04:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to keep up your guard. One day, he may want to make love with you. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into such a decission because it can effect the rest of your life. Making love is an adult behavior with very adult consequences. Accidents do happen, and you are inexperienced, so accidents are very possible. Do you want to give up your dreams to raise a child? Do you want to deal with contracting an STD? Can you handle being used for sex? Making love is more than the physical act. It is a bonding of two souls to produce a new soul. You should save making love until you are in a committed relationship. BTW: marriage is a committed relationship. God bless
2007-12-09 14:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a boy, right? OK, so that means he will want to go further. It is the girl's responsibility to keep things under control. Sex opens a flood of emotions that are life-changing, so be very careful with yourself. Crossing that threshold can really make a mess of your life.
2007-12-09 14:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by The Oracle of Omigod 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. there is nothing wrong with your boyfriend having sex before you. If you fell uncomfortable about having sex then tell him that you are not ready. besides i dont thing a girl who is 14 should even have sex, because then you have to worry about STD's and pregnancy. Right now the thing that you need to be worring about is your grades... NOT having sex with your boyfriend. if you need more advice you can contact me at: kooky_little_redhead77@yahoo.com, oh by the way i am 14 myself
2007-12-09 14:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually, guys who have had sex before (especially as young as that) only look for hot girls FOR sex. If he tells you that he wants to have sex, DON'T say yes no matter how he says please. If you get pregnant there's nothing you can do about it and it will only lead to disaster. Threat him that you're gonna have to break up with him if he wants to have sex.
Losing your virginity at that age is not good. Seriously. I'm 14 too. I can't have a boyfriend yet though.
Good luck!
2007-12-09 14:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by jenn :] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything past what you feel is right. If he tries anything you need to explain to him that you aren't ready and if he doesn't respect you for it then you have to move on because that means he isn't the 1 for you. A true boyfriend who loves you will respect you for your decision.
2007-12-09 14:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably lying! Who has sex at 14!!! Is he for real!!! If it is true and you know for sure that it's true, then I say dump him because he will want the same from you.
2007-12-09 14:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to worry about sex. Tell him straight up that you are not interested in that. If he dumps you, then you are better off. Don't lower your standards!
2007-12-09 14:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by halter_broke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear that you aren't with him for sex. If he really likes you he won't pressure you into it. Never let him even try to pressure you into sex.
2007-12-09 14:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋