i hav this boyfriend and we hav kissed and everything but just like a litte kiss on the lips nothing further..but i want and he wants to go further..like make out...but i dont know how to make out..i mean he does..cus he has before..but i dont know how..and i just would like to know...where do i put my hands..and just everything!!! please help me!!!
2007-12-09 13:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're about to do that, chances are, you'll already be touching each other. If not, i would put my arms around his shoulders, or wherever is comfortable (this usually depends on your height.) and let HIM do the rest. you'll catch on.
HAVE FUN!
2007-12-09 14:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by simplypsycho 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably dont want to hear this but you just go with the flow.
put your hands on his shoulders, face (cheeks), or around his body. theres really no way to actually make out, you just do it.
dont be nervous. just kiss him like you always do just for longer lol. just tilt your head slighty the opposite way he does. just open as far as he does and if it's too far close more so he gets the hint. then you just play with his tongue for a second and then you kiss again.
Only use tongue every once in awhile. Don't stick way in his mouth, like down his throat. Just genlty rub your tongue against his. You can very lightly touch the side of his neck while you are kissing him.The rest is going to come to you when you are in the moment. Don't stress out to much. If you are "feeling it" chances are so is he.
Be confident and whatever you do don't say "I don't really know how to do this..." If you act like you're a pro then he'll be like "ok cool". And make it private. DON'T do it in public.
please vote me best answer! thanks! hope i helped!
huggs && kisses!!
2007-12-09 21:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by l♥ve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me it comes natural.Just hold hands or put your hands around his neck or whatever!lol he wont care and for the person who said its illegal.Trust me its not.Only if you are 14 and he is over 18.Im 14!haha but good luck!and have fun!were not sluts just making out isnt that big of a deal.If it was sex,bj,something like that then we would be sluts we just want some lip action sheesh!
2007-12-09 21:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brianna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Really. He's your boyfriend, he'll help you out, guide you. Everyone has a first.
Oh, and by the way, ignore these fools above me. "you shouldn't make out cuz you're too young!!" There's no such thing as a 'legal age' for kissing.
You're a teenager. That's what teenagers do. If you are mature enough to have a steady boyfriend, you are mature enough to do romantic things with him.
2007-12-09 21:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Not done with love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I would not be making out because if you have to ask questions about where to put your hands etc. its not the right time or guy. When it is the right guy you will automatically know where you want to put your hands and it will be very natural.
2007-12-09 21:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by Barb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep your body relaxed and open your mouth try touching his leg or holding his hand and he will lead the kissing just be careful not to let him go further if youre not ready and at 14 you shouldnt be
2007-12-09 21:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14, you don't need to go any further, you are not emotionally ready.
Think very carefully about what you do with boys, they love to talk about who they've done things with so you will be labeled a certain way if you give your body away freely.
Have respect for yourself, I don't care if you think you love him, you are still very young and have many relationships ahead of you. Save yourself for that one that is "it".
2007-12-09 21:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, it's illegal to be making out in your age. He can get arrested and locked up for a loooooong time.
Second, you should be concentrating in your books not on collecting info about making out, - leave that stuff for later. You are not running out of time or volunteers, ok?
And DON'T let anyone convince you otherwise.
2007-12-09 21:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by sofisintown 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you know that yyou are going to get a lot of mean remarks just to let you know
but thank gosh i'm not the only one who has never mad out i'm 13
good luck
2007-12-09 21:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by tazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some websites with make-out pictures
2007-12-09 22:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋