it all started well but these days it's been a major rollercoaster between my boyfriend and i. i just don't know what to do anymore, when we fight i always try make things work but i feel like i'm the only that's making the effort to do so.. even though he tells me that he is trying to make our relationship work somehow.
everytime we would get into an argument or fight about things, he would never call or text me to make things work or try to solve things.. i'm the one that always do it. and if i don't do it and just keeep arguin with him, he says that i always overact with things..
i don't know what to do..
i seriously don't get him anymore, i feel like he wasn't the guy that i first met =\
2007-12-09 12:35:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to tell you this, but I think the magic left out of this relationship a long time ago. It may be time for you to move on if he isn't doing his part. If you spend more time bickering and arguing than you are kissing and making up, then what is the purpose of continuing your relationship?
The next time you find yourself at odds with your boyfriend, then you need to wait until he initiates the apologies and have him call you instead. Maybe a cold shoulder is what he needs to bring himself around. If not, break it up and move on.
2007-12-09 12:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change...move on... if hes not putting the effort into the relationship then find someone else who will time and effort to make the relationship work.
2007-12-09 20:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by pookster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may not be comforting but he might want to be able to see another girl.
2007-12-09 20:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by pdgsmr1702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, im sorry but its probably time to move on!
2007-12-09 20:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋