because most guys are but i don't want it.
2007-12-09 12:23:27 · 40 answers · asked by ginger_spic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try Jupiter, Venus or Mars
2007-12-09 12:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have yourself a hard to find item there, I guess just go out with some guys and make it perfectly clear that you are just in it for a non-sexual good time. If someone says that's fine then either you have a guy who isn't primarily interested in sex or you have someone who thinks they can put some elbow grease into it and get you in the sack, but they get easier to figure out the further along it goes. I can pretty much guarantee you though that any guy you run into would be interested in sex at some level though, even if it is only a little bit interested.
2007-12-09 12:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't find a guy who isn't looking for sex at all. Men are hardwired to look for sex.
However, you can find a guy who is looking for more than just sex and will wait until you're ready. Often, these are the shy guys who you probably wouldn't give a second glance in the halls.
The loud, boisterous, popular guys in high school have a rep to protect and want to be able to brag about their sexual exploits with friends.
I spent years pursuing the attention hogs because I thought they were hot. I finally got my head on straight and am marrying one of the shy guys. Give one a chance.
2007-12-09 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous Coward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for guys that are virgins... no sex-craved guy would brag about being a virgin. Also find out through getting to know the person/guy to determine if he wants to have sex too soon (or if it's his focus). It's easy to tell when a guy is perverted, he obviously wants sex.
2007-12-09 12:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship that lasts is going to end up in sex at some point.
I'm assuming you are talking about hooking up. Try meeting a nice guy in an unusual place. Library, church, adult classes, common interest places, some type of club?
2007-12-09 12:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is how guys are - their primary need is for sex (its because of all the testosterone flooding their system during their teen years).
You won't find a guy that isn't interested in sex, but you might find one that is willing to wait until you're ready (good luck).
2007-12-09 12:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u won't find a guy isn't intrested in sex coz it's out nature but you may find one who could wait for you but they are rare.
so you have to be clear from the first that u aren't ready to have sex and don't be shy from telling them that coz all guys think about having sex from the 1 date if they can
good luck !
2007-12-09 12:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Adviser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep saying no that will sure sort out the dross --- you cant really tell if the guy is more interested in you than in sex until you do say no --- and every guy you meet will be interested in sex --- some will want more though and be prepared to wait without pressure ---- best wishes
2007-12-09 12:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just meet guys and let them know that you are not into premarital sex. My boyfriend's best friend just married this girl and she was a virgin. He used to be a huge manwhore before he met her. If he truly likes you and is interested in you for you, he will stick around reguardless. And for those who don't....they aren't worth your time anyway.
2007-12-10 12:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, they dont exist. However, some guys are better at controlling it than others. Guys want sex and if they tell you they dont they are lying or have no testosterone. What they really mean is that they are not requiring it (for now), however sooner or later they will want it.
2007-12-09 19:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell them your daddy is the sheriff of your town...More seriously their are allot of nice guys who attend a church their somewhere and have been raised to respect others ....You might want to go hang out at bible school cause you will find a winner there...
2007-12-09 12:35:12 · answer #11 · answered by Richard P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋