2007-12-09 12:01:22 · 15 answers · asked by bethray2005 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
he left because he could....he was a boyfriend and wasn't committed husband....he was too young for the responsibility....he just isn't the type to accept responsibility.....ask him.
2007-12-09 12:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by for the times 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, you don't want someone who doesn't want you.
If he left, he doesn't want you. The hard part will be to try to explain to your daughter when it's age appropriate, why he don't want her.
But as for you, hold your head up high. You are a mom of a beautiful little girl. You need to be strong, and have good self respect or you can't be a very good mom. So if someone doesn't want you, you don't want them first!
Or ever. Or even if they come back. Tough cookies!
You deserve to be wanted. Your daughter deserves to be wanted.
I know you probably hurt, after two yrs, you loved him.
But even so, you deserve to be wanted. Tell yourself that, and give him the finger.
2007-12-09 12:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like the other guy said take him to court but if it's not his daughter too you can't do anything. If it is though you can turn his world upside down. My suggestion though is make sure your daughter comes first take care of her and then see what you can do about him. Hope everything goes okay.
2007-12-09 12:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by laaron0711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a hard time taking care of your daughter then file a sue case on court to ask his support. he is not prepared on what happening right now so he leave or trying to run his obligation with you.
2007-12-09 12:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lifeseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was a flake. Let me guess, he was a 'bad boy' type, and had problems staying loyal? Would you really want him back after he did something like that to you? I hope not.
You need to find a good guy. There are plenty of us out there, you just need to look. Honest.
2007-12-09 12:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jay K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and move on , I know its hard especially for your daughter , I wish I could help but the only thing that will is time.
Good luck ladies !
I mean it
2007-12-09 12:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry, that's really sad. sending you a big hug. unfortunatly there is always a reason, you just don't know it yet. get some help from other family members and friends to help you through this rough time.
2007-12-09 12:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by carol anne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no offense deal with it. you dont need a man to live. you can do it on your own. show him you dont need him ot be a good mom. just realize that when you take him for child support, if you do, he automatically have visitation rights twice a week. my friend did that and now regrets it
2007-12-09 12:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww thats not good {hugs}I think that you should talk to him, and if things don't change bring him to court, in the meantime you should family, and friends to help if they care enough they will be there for you.
2007-12-09 12:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a new one and go after him for child support.
2007-12-09 12:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋