okay so i like this guy that goes to the penetcostal, we talk all the time but arent official and ive been going to penetcostal for 7 or 8 months now... i wnat to switch to city bible church. because i dont believe what they teach iw anna b a better christian and am afraid i cant do that or grow with god in that church cause wearind skirts is not comfortable for me and if i wear pants to work or soemthing i feel bad.. and scared someone will see me. but i think its no ones right to judge a person. if a person believes something they do if they dont they dont. what shoul di do???? should i tell the guy.. HELP
2007-12-09 11:17:40 · 5 answers · asked by juliii 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Go where you beleive you can be closer to God, you dont owe the guy any explaination unless you just want to.
2007-12-09 11:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to suggest that you window shop (Per se) Go to different denominations of churches.. If you don`t feel anything, Move on, God is NOT in the house.. You will find the right home for you.
The road to God is not instant. There are many paths and we all take a different one. None is right, and none is wrong. What guides me down the path may not guide you at all.. Ask God to make it crystal clear for you.. He does hear you..
Peace & God bless from Texas <><
2007-12-09 20:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should believe what you think the Bible is teaching you. I was married to a Pentecostal man and I went to church with him for almost a year and I felt smothered and stagnant. I felt like God was not love but fear. You should be able to worship how you see fit. if he disagrees with it, who cares?? Do you want to spend your life pleasing someone else and neglecting yourself? I broke away and never regretted it once. I never thought Pentecostals were truly happy people, they just seemed so brainwashed.
2007-12-09 19:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him exactly what you just told me. If you are totally honest w/him upfront you'll remain friends. If he hears it from someone else he won't as easily understand. Just pray and ask God to lead you about the issues you question. He will show you just like he did me and many others. But, you are right. God is our judge, not man. God Bless!
2007-12-09 19:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by paula r 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable, you shouldn't push yourself. you could end up turning away from religion. Visit a few churches, get to know other religions, you will know when you find what your looking for and you will know god placed you there!
2007-12-09 19:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋