I m 24 and m in love with woman she is 38 we both are planning to get married soon but i doubt that after marrishe might will not get pregnant juz bocz of her age ..
also i m not able to find her anymore attractive as like before for sex but that doesnt mean i dont love her ... what shold i do?
2007-12-09 09:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you really love her, marry her, even if she isn't sexually attractive. If you want children, adopt, god knows there's plenty of babies that need good homes with loving parents...
2007-12-09 09:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ugly Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being 38 years old does not mean you can't get pregnant and have children.
There is a chemical reason for feeling like you have fallen in love with someone. The effects of this usually lasts 2 years. So if you are not finding her as attractive as you did at first, this could be the reason why. True love, not infatuation, lasts forever.
2007-12-09 18:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by discomic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you lost some of your fire for her because you think she won't have your child after you get married. It's not impossible to bear children even later than your forties (if that's what's slowing your passion a bit). If there's another issue going on with you, you should try to get to the bottom of it decisively before you get married. Because you can love her all you want, but if you're not going to sleep with her she's going to be pissed. Do you think pre-marital counseling might help? Whatever you do, don't get married before you solve this dilemma. Good luck to you.
2007-12-09 17:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop right there. You answered you own question. She doesn't make you feel attracted to her anymore. Don't marry her. I think she is too old for you. Something is not right. Why would a 38 yr old woman want a guy 24??
2007-12-09 17:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by FILE 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
then knock her up now and have a shot gun wedding. freeze her eggs. its 2007! there are a million and 99 n\ways to make a kid. stop worrying the more stress you put on it, the less of a chance you will have.and if you thought her age would have been an issue when having a child you should have thought of that when you wanted an older lady. its not like she is in her 50's. and some lady was about 96 when she had a kid, so like i said stop worrying....baby dust.....oh yeahmy mo was 35 when she had my sister that was ten years ago...
2007-12-09 17:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by danielle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest it sounds like you are settling...i mean you are only 24, you are kinda just throwing your life away and because you have so many buts and questions about it i dont think, and i really don't think you think that getting married or staying with her is the right decision....maybe im wrong but i think that if it was right you wouldn't have all these quams! Good luck with it!x
2007-12-09 17:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you do not love her than why you were with her sexual relationship with her i think you are not a good guy for marriage below 20 fore sexual you do not bother any age how stupid you are she believed you so only she had a sex with you that time you want to think now what is the use of asking us you have played in her life now you her asking to get marry are what you do one think this is your mistake you connivance saying about your age & search a guy to her of her age and make both of them married than you get marry to so one who suits your age
2007-12-13 01:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by sonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u sure that u love her or it just a kindness on her?? bcz u didn't mention abt her anything.. is she married already??
If s then tttryy to resolve her problem??
U and she have to face many problems in society if u marry her..if u r in india.. otherwise no problem
ok.. if u love her really ..go ahead.. marry her
2007-12-10 01:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by vnky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u love her marry her.Be positive time is stil there she is not that old.U will surely have ur own kids.
2007-12-11 09:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
other dudes right if your not sexually attracted then dint marry her she might just be told old for you anyways
2007-12-09 17:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋