help me plz?

Question

i need to figure out some stuff but i don't know how so if any one can help answer teh following plz...
In Septmber i got in a lot of trouble with my mom. i was in valleyball and i quit and didn't tell my mom for 2 weeks ( i know the best chose to make) i was walking home with my bee tyler (who is a boy). my mom saw us holding hands and freaked out. she yelled at me and told me to get in the car so i did. well she was so mad that she got tyler's fone #. then i started to yell at her ( again not the best choose to make). she was so mad she slapped the crap out of me. then yelled at tyler's mom. the next day he asked me if i need a place to go when i run away!! i know i shouldn't have done it but im only 13 so wat can i say... i can't get the thing out of my mind and my mom will not for give me. wat do i do??? HELP PLZ!!!!

Answer 1

If you are 13, go talk with your school counselor. Tell them everything and they will help you. They will know how to handle your situation. Don't try to do things yourself with out seeking the proper help. So please talk with you counselor and ask them for help. They will keep things between you and them and work towards better understanding yourself and your mother. Don't do anything foolish.

Answer 2

Seriously don't run away, that just makes life misrable for everyone. Just take some time to cool down, it may seem overwelming now but you'll feel a little better if you just take a second to breath. First of all nobody is worth ruining your relationship with your parents exspecially that young. Talk to your mom and calmly try to explain everything, your side of the story. If you start yelling she'll probably yell back so you hear what shes trying to say. Tell her your only thirteen and you can only make so maybe choices by yourself or something like that. Good luck, hope everything works out.

Answer 3

Okay, to me, Mom was a little over the top. If you were just walking and holding hands, I see nothing wrong with that. If you were doing more ... groping each other, making out ... I can see her anger. You shouldn't have yelled back at your Mom .. but asked her to please listen to your side of the story before she jumped to conclusions. If she wouldn't you could have given her time to calm down and then tried to discuss it with her. Since this is already passed ... maybe now you could sit down and write your Mom a letter .. explain your side of the story. Give her the letter when she isn't quite so angry. Hand it to her and ask her to please come to your room after she reads it so you can both talk about it together. Other than that, I don't see that there's a whole lot you can do. You have to respect your Mom's wishes. As she trusts you more, try to keep that trust going.

Answer 4

if you plan on running away again at least try to get along and settle things out with your mom first before doing any harm to another situation. Next time ask your mom: Did'nt you ever like a boy and did what you can to make him like you? She will understand you more with her point of view. Try to understand why your mom got mad, shes probably afraid that her little girl is growing up so fast.

Answer 5

Regardless of the circumstances you were assaulted by your mother. It is against the law to hit people. If this becomes repetitive get help. As for lying to your mom that is disrespectful and punishment should have been handed out but not a physical assault. Try to work things out with your mom but remember you and her have both crossed certain lines already and this will take time to mend. good luck and best wishes.

Answer 6

Your mom is very protective. She sounds a little over protective. But there's nothing you can do right now if you're only thirteen. You need to live life by her standards for now. But you shouldn't have to deal with this when you're older. You should try to change her so that she's not going psycho on you.

Answer 7

just calm everything down and dont let you and your moms relationship get ruined just coz of a guy..but dont also set limits for yourself like you cant have a boyfriend, coz at 13 its pretty normal to have a bf/gf. just next time if it has to be a secret be really good at hiding it. if u need a place to hang out go somewhere that for sure ur mom wudnt find you....just dont do anything stupid you'll regret(sex,you know getting pregnant, std's etc) at least wait for the right time. enjoy life dont rush.

Answer 8

maybe your mother is freaked out by the fact you have a guy friend and held hands? perhaps she feels you're too young for that right now, i don't know.

you could always ask your mom to talk, let her know how you feel and ask her what you can do to make the relationship better...

take care.

Answer 9

did u run away? if u didn't then dont. try to talk things out. ur mom will be so worried about u and you'll get in even MORE trouble.y was she mad that u and ur bf were holding hands?

Answer 10

ok look. This seems a little too dramatic to be realistic. Are you just doing this to get attention??? If not, talk to your dad (if he's still in the picture) for advice, or a friend or counselor.