We broke up over 2 months ago. I ended it due to lack of time. It was a bad break up. I kinda told her I didnt know if I ever loved her and then 2 weeks later hooked up with some new girl. I wanted to remain friends, she said no because if I lied about ever loving her she doesnt want a liar in her life and although I can do what I want the new girl and how fast I moved on was a slap in the face. I did say I love you to her first and she said next girl I say it to mean it because to find out I didnt was worse than being cheated on by someone you love. She said a lot of nasty things which she apologized by email the next day. This was a month ago and I ignored the email. I miss her, What do I do?
2007-12-09 09:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make up, but please, stay friends for a while. You hotheads need to think things through before trying another relationship.
2007-12-09 09:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to understand that you broke her heart....i mean by telling her that you never loved her you erased what you had as well as broke up with her. So once you have understood that and the seriousness of it then you can start to understand just how hurt she is and how much you have to make up for....sorry if this is rubbing it in but you need to know how bad it is before you can make it better!
Right here is what you do...you need to go to her and tell her that you didnt mean it (thats presuming that you do love her...if you really never loved her then don't say it), apologise for how hurtful you were, tell her that you just thought it would make it easier for both of you and that by the time you coped yourself on you just thought it would be too late but that you can't stop thinking about her and you are heartbroken and you know you have a lot to make up for but you would really like it if she'd give you another go.
Now you must understand that at first she'll prob say no....but keep at it, show her you are serious and you have changed your ways! Good luck!x
2007-12-09 09:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you love her or are you just feeling badly because of what you did?
All you can do is be honest with her....and I mean really honest.
But if you have feelings for her then be sincere, and don't go behind anyone's back.
Good luck
2007-12-09 09:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to go have some coffee with you and tell her that a new year is coming and that it's time to forgive each other and start over new.
2007-12-09 09:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for her there are stills some woman wityh balls out there.
2007-12-09 09:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you messed up pretty badly, let her go.
2007-12-09 09:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋