this girl i know. she's not suffering but she's doing bad things that could hurt her later on. she's doing drugs at raves. she use to do a lot of acid and she's drinking and smoking. i want to take her away from all that. all of it. i want her to go somewhere with me to see plays and watch movies and get away from alchohol and drugs and cigarettes. but i want her to still have all the fun she has. all the dancing she does at random times that make me smile all the hand holding and getting me to do things that i dont like and then she makes me like em. she makes me so happy that i want to make her happy and get her away from all this negativity. we're totally different. i'm hardworking and focused for my future, she wants to have fun and stay the same when we were young. i want her to come with me and love her forever. how do i tell her this? that all the stuff she's doing could kill her and ruin me. i wnat her with me, i dont want her to go wit the bad stuff. how do i tell her?
2007-12-09 09:00:31 · 6 answers · asked by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... I tried to stop doing stupid **** for my bf just cuz he asked... if she cares about you, she will stop...
2007-12-09 09:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ugly Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her this: My brother and his girlfriend got into the rave seen in the 90s, poppers, acid, e;s etc, they were intelligent outgoing upbeat having fun going to all the parties, hanging out with ravers they loved it all ) My brother smoked alott of weed too with his mates loved it ! ......
He developed cannabis pychosis got paranoid and had a nervous breakdown. After being released from a mental institution last year he is now on permanent injections for skitzophrenia which also make him very stiff and slow.
When they broke up his lovely girlfriend started working on the streets to make some easy money, and got into heavier drugs.............
She was found dead in a doorway last week.
They had a daughter together she has lost them both, But luckily has us.
I dont want to scare you,, but i never predicted that nor i think did they. (
2007-12-09 09:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with her and tell her how the things she's doing is affecting not only her but your relationship. Explain to her how much u care for her and that you'll always be there for her but u don't wanna see anything bad happen to her. Tell her u wanna be with her but the things she's doing is tearing up ur relationship and u don't wanna deal with all these problems.
2007-12-09 09:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suggest professional help, a dr. or drug counsellor.
make it plain you only want to help her.
with counselling she can improve and her outlook on life
will change. your a good man, best of luck.
2007-12-09 09:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that person is going to drag you down. look how your feeling right know let her go. sounds like her will is stronger than yours you well lose.
2007-12-09 09:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she cares she will stop.
2007-12-09 09:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋