I've known my boyfriend for 2 years and we got back together 3 months ago, after a four month break-up. I've never really been into getting back together after breaking up b/c obviously, the break up was meant to be. But, for this guy, I thought, "why not give it another try?" So, since our reuniting, we've had little arguments, big ones and everything in between. I've doubted our relationship but he always renews my faith. However, things are beginning to add up again, the way they did before our split. Friday night, we were having a debate about having strippers at his bachelor party. We're not gettin married anytime soon but I often bring up hypothetical scenarios. I said that my dad never needed strippers to have a good time w/ his friends and he brings up something about my father that I told him that stung when he said it. I said goodnite, hung up the phone and he called the next day. We talked more and he said he wouldn't take it back b/c it was the truth. Is he worth my time?
2007-12-09 06:24:55 · 7 answers · asked by 1dimple87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he's not
2007-12-09 06:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you pushing his buttons? Have you asked yourself the question, "do I really want this guy?" We all tend to measure our mates by our parents, guys - their mother's, girls - their father's... What do you like about him? What are the positives? Or are you focusing on the negitives so that you can have an easy out? You asked if he was worth your time... He is, he came back, he still cares... The bigger question is, are you worth his time? Remember that great debates & discussions are fantastic when you are not seeking to have either party win! If he has something to offer you that you can gain & learn by, then YES - he is worth it!
2007-12-09 06:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know because you neglected to mention what it was about your father that he said (for obvious reasons...it's difficult to hear disparaging comments about our parents). Without letting us in on it (because it's not necessary), you need to evaluate whether what he said was out of spite, or if it had the quality of being true. Sometimes we need someone who loves us enough to tell us the truth, even some harsh truths, but no one needs someone around to rub their noses in things. You have to decide which of those scenarios fits your guy, and respond accordingly. Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-09 06:32:30 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. just end it. he shouldn't be badmouthing about your family either and not saying sorry. guys like that are buttholes. he doesnt deserve you.
2007-12-09 06:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by cookie monster! RAWR! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well guys are weird that way and you have to accept it. Don't change him.
2007-12-09 06:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt sound like someone u should waste ur time on..... good luck :)
2007-12-09 06:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by fsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. dump tha louzy butthole
2007-12-09 06:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋