My boyfriend is always calling me names. Ever since I told him I didn't like the word c*nt he has always called me it. He said he did it so I can get over my "stupid hate of words" he calls me lots of bad, vulgar names, all the time. WHen he does it, he isn't angry with me, and most of the time he calls me names when everything is peachy keen.. I told him I don't like it but he says he can't help it.. what do I do?
2007-12-09 06:17:37 · 15 answers · asked by chikazee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your "stupid hate of words" is your right and him saying that is merely an excuse.
Sit him down at some point when you've not argued, tell him how bad it actually makes you feel and that you won't tolerate it any more. Don't mention leaving his pathetic ***, but if he carries on follow through and dump him. Make sure he knows why as well.
You can't help disliking swear words but he can sure as hell help saying them. Not everyone likes to be a potty mouth.
2007-12-09 06:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are angry tend to wanna fight, but most of your angry people are bullies so they fight verbally. in this case it sounds like this guy is a bully, he is fighting in a way where he cant really be hit back. you can insult him all day but it isn't really gonna do anything effective yet he either knows it hurts your feelings or thinks it does and that's why he does it. in his mind your holding a knife and hes in a tank. in any case your only as beautiful as you say you are. Your body is your temple if you don't worship it don't expect anyone else too either.. but the simple answer is, it sounds like your a rebound.
2016-04-08 03:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his a s s to the curb. Life is too short and too difficult to be mistreated by someone who is supposed to be loving and supportive towards you. There are plenty of guys in this world who have sufficient impulse control not to be verbally abusive to their women. Find one. Good luck to you.
2007-12-09 06:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump the ffing loser. you dont need him id kill him if he was my bf total bi8tch slap to the face. thats the answer to that problem walk right out of his life and never look back and than when he starts to whin about how much he loves and needs u back .. count how mant times he uses those words , but it will be to late.
2007-12-09 06:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by sixxss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him immediately. He has no respect for you and never will. And considering he's that insulting to you even in a good mood, you can guarantee things will get worse.
2007-12-09 06:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, no guy is worth being treated like **** theres only so much a girl can take. find someone better im sure there must be at least one guy, and if you cant find one, keep looking. no need for jerks.
2007-12-09 07:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to reiterate that you really don't like it. If he can't help it, maybe you can't help but leave. Respect is very important. Don't live without it.
2007-12-09 06:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest replacement words. I know this sounds silly, but it may work. Instead of c*** maybe orchid...lol. I know it seems silly, but it may work. Good Luck***
2007-12-09 06:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i think giving him a taste of his own medicine is good butif he doesnt react and still calls you names then dump him.
2007-12-09 06:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Luna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time tell him that you dont appriciate it, and next time it happens there are goiong to be consequences
2007-12-09 06:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋