Hi, i met a guy 4 yrs ago on the internet, and we finally met face to face about 4 weeks ago, we talked once in awhile on the phone and IM before we met in "real" life. There was instant connection when i seen him but he works to much to be in a relationship , he still wants to be friends for now.We got together last friday and we were just gonna "cuddle" but ... , i should have known better, there has always been this heat between us, anyways, he has not called me since...im worried now that he just played me.
How long should i wait before i start to forget about him and should i be the one to contact him first?
thanks in advance
2007-12-09 06:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry but I think you might be right. He obviously knows how to contact you cause you've been in contact for years. So he definitely might have taken advantage of the situation since he hasn't called you. You should try to move on and make it a lesson learned.
If you really do like him, then you can email him and just ask him why he hasn't called and maybe he'll email you back. But I wanna warn you though, don't have any expectations of him responding back. Sounds like he probably won't seeing how he hasn't done so already. And if he does respond, just beware of him using "player" talk to keep your little "connection" going on. I think it's better for you just to email and then move on.
Good luck!
2007-12-09 06:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by WordToTheWise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call him now. I have a feeling you're going to find that he was just looking for sex the entire time. Now that he's gotten it, it's time to move on.
2007-12-09 14:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He clearly doesn't care about you or your emotions. Find someone who will give you the attention and RESPECT that you deserve.
2007-12-09 14:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by :Sheila: 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called friends w/ benefits
2007-12-09 14:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by moneymaker7628 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋