I hooked up with a guy last month. Since then, he's been calling, texting me, leaving msgs. We really click but he goes to college 2 hrs from me.
Thurs nite I went to visit friends there again. He called that day. Said he would be w guys, but wanted to see me. I didnt want it to seem like I was all about him-- so I went out with the girls, played it cool. He was texting and looking for me, found me at the bar. He was very funny, flirty and we danced and hung out all nite. He kissed me..
Walking home, he asked to hold my hand. I joked about being a booty call and he said, "if thats all you were, why would i call u just to talk and love every sec of it?" said if i lived there, he could see us hanging out.
i went to his place, hooked up. AMAZING. stayed up til 4 talking and cuddling. hung out the next day. he texted that day. i sent an email yesterday evening saying i had a fun time w him-- but no response yet. my friends say he's a sweet guy, but i'm thinking i got played. thoughts?
2007-12-09 01:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sent the email at 630 last night. its only 9 am now, so maybe im just a bit impatient. haha.
This is my first and ONLY one night stand...so I just dont know how to read the guy. I'm unattached, but started to get interested. aside from the sex, we get along great. I could see myself being liking him. bad idea?
2007-12-09 01:01:31 · update #1
I don't see how you got 'played.'
You went to his place, had an 'AMAZING' time. You got cuddles afterwards, talked with him etc etc. Sounds like you had a great time. Ultimately, you may want more than he does out of the relationship, but I don't see how you got screwed over. Sounds like you had a really good time.
2007-12-09 01:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it funny that the women all think you got played and the guys are all telling you to stop going nuts and just chill? Maybe if you stated what you were looking for in the beginning and talked things out, you wouldn't have to wonder. Just a nod for the next time around...we guys like to hear things straight out, we don't mind-read; at least not most of us!
2007-12-09 01:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damnnnnnnnn!!!!! Give the guy some time!!!! I don't think u got played, he'll check in, give him some time. lol Seems like u both had a great time, don't spoil it by thinking u got played... only time will tell. If u want my opinion, I think things will be alright...... don't push, play it cool and chill! Let him make the next move.... can u say check/mate?
2007-12-09 01:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is with the point to the element Ive additionally heard men will do all maximum something for intercourse and ladies individuals will do almost something for funds & love women individuals do no longer desire intercourse they do only it reason they understand that's what the guy needs a guy could be an excellent lover yet enable him be broke and lazy shes long gone. if he wasn't the excellent lover yet he buys her diamonds buys a house and has a sturdy activity she would be able to bathe his grimy attracts and nevertheless will do him just to maintain that funds coming in I mite get a good style of thumbs down from women individuals yet it relatively is a reality
2016-12-10 17:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT just once in a while or even often, but EVERY SINGLE TIME a girl has sex BEFORE marriage, she...............SHE
RISKS getting used and dumped, getting pregnant, getting a disease, and rarely risks getting married right away because he has fell so head over heels in love with her and cant live without her.
I know oxygen,lifetime, all the soap operas and romance novels starts out with the girl having sex right away...ooops I mean"making love" right away, and thenext morning after the first 'love making session" he looks into her eyes so lovingly and asks"will you make me the happiest man of earth and marry me?"
Then of course they go through some ordeal, work it out and get married and live happily ever after.
Meanwhile back in reality......................
The girl gets used until he sees another girl who is saying "try me out try me out dump the #%^&* and try MEEEEE!"
And he continues the same pattern of using girls for sex and dumping them, they on the other hand end up as single welfare moms, some continue to repeat their mistakes others learn from it, some get diseases they die with and all the emotional scars that go with it.
Next time make the guy MARRY YOU first then you wont have to worry or wonder if you were used for sex hon.
2007-12-09 01:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Slow down. Overthinking is your problem, give it 2 or 3 days before you worry about that.
PS I'm glad you had amazing sex haha.
2007-12-09 01:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Brian the supergenius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think are being used but it is hard to tell. next time he says that he was going out with the guys I would follow him.
2007-12-09 01:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Roxy S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wowww what an amazing experienced huh? it seems you had a great time / fun with him. Well, take it easy and have fun!
2007-12-09 01:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it s okey we must try all we have in mind one night stand thats gud atleast uve experience that others wont...
2007-12-09 01:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by honeycreeper07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't push it he probably used you for sex so i wouldn't look for messages unless he wants more it was to soon and it happened and maybe thats all he wanted
2007-12-09 01:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋