What do you think is wrong here?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 weeks now.

The only time he wants to talk,or pay very much attention to me is if I'll do something sexual with him,if not he doesnt talk to me much to me at all.

He makes up a lame exscuse that he's sick or something.

I'm a virgin,so we've not actually had sex.

Answer 1

I think the picture is pretty clear! Your "boyfriend" is not a boyfriend at all. He's just another guy looking to get laid. You my dear, are his prey. He sounds really cheap and sleazy!

Since the sixties sexual revolution, women have allowed men to feel free to demand sex as part of a relationship. Before the sixties, most women were virgins until their wedding night. Today, men have become real cocky, they think they can just demand sex, and the woman will give it to them from fear of loosing them. The men of today will have to learn the ways of yesterday: "Things come to those who wait."

Be a woman of the 21st century, and say "NO!" to random sex. All this guy wants is a roll in the hey. Find yourself a guy who SHOWS you that he loves you before he has the nerve to ask you for sexual favors. Being a virgin is a beautiful thing, and also very rare these days. There are too many promiscuous people out there spreading disease and teenage pregnancy. Don't allow yourself to get caught in all that mess. There are plenty of good men out there, you don't need him. Just wait for the right one, and it's definitely not this one. Good luck to you, and happy holidays.

Answer 2

The first problem is you have only been seeing this guy for 5 weeks and you are doing sexual things with him. You are a virgin so you must have some control. If he knows you are a virgin what he really wants is to take that away from you so he can brag to his friends. I think you should leave him. You need to really be in love before you give up your virginity. Do you know how special that is? Maybe I sound old fashioned but I can tell you this I wish I had waited to give that up. I was 14 when it happened and I was pressured because everyone teased me about being a virgin. I can't go back and change that, I hope that you wait for the right person, not someone who only wants to hang out with your for sexual favors.

Answer 3

DUMP HIM..... all he wants is sexual things.. and if you dont think so test him.. if you are hanging out with him and you guys are making out... start to go down on him and then stop.. and then if he keeps on saying he wants it just tell him that you dont want to and see what he says.. if he says okay and is fine with it then, which in this case i would be suprised, he really likes you.. but if he acts mad and ignors you for the rest of the night or the rest of the week then all he wants is to get in you pants.. i would just go look for some one who wants to spend time with you for YOU.. not your goods..

Answer 4

I don't see a good match here, between you two. Is he bored with you? Honestly, I wouldn't be living with him; there's too much together-ness..... Too much familiarity. He's also taking you for granted. Is he a spoiled child in a man's body? A mother's boy? In my opinion, when two ppl live together b/f marriage, it shows immaturity in both parties. Sorry, hon, but I'm being brutally frank with you. For your own good, tho.
Guess I do agree with you on this.... he's sulking b/c you aren't having sex with him. He secretly thought that if you moved in with him, it would lead to a sexual relshp between y'all.

Answer 5

Girl don't give it up to him he is a jerk and only wants to take that from you. I can tell you already know thats all he wants. Once you let some one take that from you will can never get it back and trust me you will want it back

Answer 6

This guy is a jerk, if he does not make you feel like a princess all of the time, then he is not the guy for you. move on before you waist your first time on a looser.

Answer 7

You are too good for him.

Good luck.