okay, i don't understand. most men are so stupid, i mean come on now, come on don't be ridiculous.
if their GF cheats on them with another guy, the BF would blame it on the guy and want to kill him and beat him up. WTF? isn't ti the GF's decision to cheat? who chose to cheat on the guy? the GF did, nobody forced the GF to cheat, she chose to herself. yet so many retards blame it on the guy for what the GF chose to do. it's so stupid.
Why get angry for what someone else chose to do? it's like blaming someone else for what another person chose to do. it's so ridiculous, it should be common sense but yet people are so stupid, what the hell?
2007-12-08 22:05:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
colin m, i wouldn't beat the guy up, i'd probably throw the GF out of the house and key her car or something. i'll leave the guy that she cheat with ALONE, because that way the GF will get pissed off and think "wtf, he's the one that had sex with me, yet i'm the one getting dumped and nothings going to happen to him"
2007-12-08 22:15:30 · update #1
helloimconfused, you are wrong, the fault is not on the guy, the fault is on the girl. the guy know the girl has a BF, yet who chose to be with the guy? THE girl did, nobody forced the girl to be with the guy while she already has a BF, the girl did, it's her decision 100 percent. don't blame other people for what others did.
2007-12-08 22:16:40 · update #2
IF YOU'RE GOING TO CHEAT, DON'T CHEAT AT ALL. IF YOU LIKE ANOTHER GUY, THEN WHY ARE YOU STILL IN THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE BF? DUH, BREAK UP WITH HIM AND GO FOR THE OTHER GUY, DON'T CHEAT, IT'S STUPID
2007-12-08 22:19:57 · update #3
don't mess with other guys while you already have a BF.
2007-12-08 22:20:42 · update #4
yes everybody's going to get hit on sometime but if another guy hits on a girl that already has a BF, who's responsibility is it to tell the guy that she already has a BF? and if he wants to be friends, then he shouldn't hit on her, but if he still hits on her, then who's responsibility is it to break the friendship? it's not a friend if it's a friend that's trying to get the girl that already has a BF, it's not competition if the girl already has a BF. most girls are immature now days too. this is so ridiculous. where are all the smart girls at?
2007-12-08 22:25:20 · update #5
a girl with a BF can have guy friends but if the guy is trying to hit on the girl, then it's not a friend, it's more like having MULTIPLE BF'S because DUH the guy is trying to get the girl that already has a BF. so many immature girls always use the word "oh he's just a friend" though it's obvious that the guy is trying to hit on her, it's not just a friend. i'd dump the girl right on the spot if she uses that line to me, it shows immaturity to the max. it's stupid.
2007-12-08 22:28:17 · update #6
In a way it's everyone's fault. If their relationship was doing as well as the person said it was, then the SO would never have cheated at all. That doesn't mean that I'm saying that the girlfriend should have absolution for cheating (I think he'd be right to dump her sorry butt), but it means that maybe they should have been working on their relationship more or that it may have been based on the wrong things.
Blaming the other guy is stupid. Maybe he's skeezy for sleeping with somebody's girl, but everyone is going to be hit on sometime while they are dating or married. You are right in that it was the girl's choice to cheat.
2007-12-08 22:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you're right. it is the girl's choice to cheat. that being the case the real question is: where are the girl's values? her reasons for cheating are often an incomplete or unfulfilled aspect of the relationship. I'm not saying this is okay because the right thing to do would be to break up with the bf so she can do her own thing free of obligations. the girl often doesn't want to go through the trouble of breaking up with the guy, wants to intentionally break his heart/wants revenge, or simply doesn't care or think about her bf's feelings. this is where you can blame the girl for acting immorally rather than communicating.
it's not only completely wrong but I don't understand what people are thinking because from there only bad word is going to spread about their unfaithfulness.
now to answer your question, let me tell you about the immature bf's who act like it's only the other guys fault. the guys who only blame the other guy are treating their girlfriends like possessions. possessions don't have a mind or conscious of their own so when it's misused the blame goes to the person who took advantage of the possession. these kinds of guys see their girlfriends as possessions and thusly bypass the notion that it was the girl's choice and see them as having been taken advantage of. without a will of its own the 'possession' can't be blamed. these kinds of guys forget that their girlfriends are human beings capable of their own thoughts.
and believe me, the minute a girl cheats on me is the minute I dump her with minimal frustration or anger toward the guy involved.
2007-12-09 07:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true u r right but if the guy knew the gf has a bf and still make out with her then the fault does involve the guy .
as u hav said the gf real bf did not blame her isnt it obvious the immature bf loves his gf who would want to blame the person lu love and 2nd no one wants the believe the person u love cheated on u ... nobody wants to take that as reality
lol retards if u mean just becuz people are blaming the wrong person is retard then the whole falling inlove thing is retarded also
if u are mature enough u should know wat i mean
2007-12-08 22:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by hello! Im confuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a dude has sex with my girlfriend and he knows we are going out he is getting a *** kicking.
And she is getting her crap thrown out on the street in a pile. Becuase i just can't beat her up now can i?
EDIT: You'd key her car? LOL are you really a guy?
Edit #2: it's obvious you don't want opinions you just want someone to pat your back and agree with you.
3rd and final: Your ranting now. It's annoying. Sorry your GF cheated on you and you didn't do anything about it. Lifes full of coulda beens.
2007-12-08 22:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Colin M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I totally agree with you. I cheated on my husband and he didn't blame me at all. Blamed it on the guy I cheated with, I too think it is crazy. I mean he didn't even know this guy, and I, his wife who gave myself to him before God, broke our vows and he didn't even get mad at me....just the guy.
2007-12-08 22:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Makingitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is why, many rumours has said that
women love jerks
and you are asking somethnig you know because they are stupid and immature!
when man try to be good women will think *he is up to no good, theres more up in his sleeve*
well this is life
2007-12-08 22:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three paragraphs of diatribe, and your answer was in your first sentence: that's what immature people do.
2007-12-08 22:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋