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He keeps blowing me off for this othger girl.. then coming back to me. Than going back to her! and ive had enough. How do i make him regret ever leaving me... and still make him want to be with me?

2007-12-08 16:23:03 · 32 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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The best way to do this is to completely ignore him. The lack of attention will kill him more than anything else you could do (except him seeing you w/ another guy....of course). That P.O.S. needs to be put in place. Put him on the sidelines and look for the next guy in your life!

2007-12-08 16:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0 0

Seems like he is having a hard time choosing. Well your not going to like this answer but the only way to make him regret leaving you is not to go back to him. He now knows he can go back to you when he wants, so he is going to continue this cycle. Put a stop to this, and if you were good to him he will regret it no matter what. Its time to worry about you.

2007-12-08 16:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

look amazing and then when he comes back to u say that u can't if he keeps going back to the other girl and that u won't go out w/ him if he doesn't stay w/ u and if he blows u off again then get over him u deserve better good luck

2007-12-08 16:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by morg 2 · 0 0

Don't let him come back for a while. When he wants to come back, tell him no. If he's going back in forth between you two, then he is playing you both. He "wants his cake and he wants to eat it too." Don't let him do it. Stand your ground. He'll realize that he was wrong and he'll come back to you and only you. But if you keep letting him go back and forth, you are setting yourself up for a broken heart. It will be hard, but I did it with my current boyfriend and now we live together. Good luck! Keep your head up! It might take time, but do you think he is worth it??

2007-12-08 16:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

First off I would take some time to stop and consider WHY you wnat to be with this jerk.

The more you allow this to happen - the more he will take advantage of the situation and keep on doing it.

Without knowing either of you I think that my assumption that you need a boost of self esteem would be on target.

Consider this: he is not the only one out there. I'm sure there is a man out there that would love to be with you and only you. A man that would respect you, cherish you, love you, and be devoted to you. You may not find him right away - but isn't that type of relationship worth waiting for?

No one deserves to be a doormat and please, PLEASE, don't allow yourself to be one anymore.

Good Luck to you.

2007-12-08 16:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by allthecleverusernamesaretaken 2 · 1 0

make him think he has lost you for good. i mean don't talk to him don't call him. pretend he don't exist and he will soon be wondering whats going on. or you could start hanging out with another dude. he will eventually try to contact you and you can just make out like you get the hint that he moved on so your moving on too ect, then if he tries to beg then take him back when the time is right. but seriously do you really want to deal with this every time he feels smothered. if he doing this to you now then he will do it again. so just dump him now.

2007-12-08 16:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by (¯`*•.(¯`*•.♥LeesaM♥.•*´¯).•*´¯) 5 · 0 0

Honestly, there is no good way. He knows he can have you both and you both will keep letting him go back and forth. You deserve someone that wants to be just with you. The best way to get back at him is to be really happy with someone else.

2007-12-08 16:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The grandest form of retribution, if that is truly what you seek, is to have him see you out and having a good time with some other guy. It doesn't need to be a serious relationship, and is probably better if it isn't. It will definitely get his attention. If not, then you deserve better, sweetie.

Hope it all works out in your favor. :)

2007-12-08 16:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by clayinspiration 4 · 0 0

Break it off completely and get a better man. Also do things that make you look great. Nothing like going all out to look your best when they can not have you back..

2007-12-08 16:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by a2z_alterego 4 · 0 0

First of all, don't try to make him regret it (if he was going to regret it, he wouldn't have ditched you). Before you restart the relationship (if you want to restart it), tell him ahead of time that you have rules. This way, he cannot take advantage of you and pretend like he's unaware of what he is doing.

2007-12-08 16:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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