how do I tell a girl I like her?

Question

how do I tell a girl I like her (not love) do I just tell her?

its kinda at the stage where everyone says u like her.

i know who she is and she knows who I am and we talk sometimes

Answer 1

just tell her. be yourself and honest.

Answer 2

Look presentable. But don't be intimidated by looks (hers or your own. Look around - beautiful girls aren't always with beautiful guys. A lot of times, funny or nice is better than handsome.) Even if she looks like Tyra Banks and you make Sam Cassell look good, if you're a good person, there's a good chance she'll be interested - eventually.
Be confident, be assertive, but be careful not to throw "freak vibes."
Make sure you're ready for her reaction when you tell her: good, bad or indifferent. A nice, calm response from you, no matter what she says can give her something to think about later, even if it doesn't seem to go your way at first.
Know what you are going to say. Practice it - talking to yourself looks stupid but if you do it alone, it will help you form your ideas into coherent sentences.
Do it in person. Don't play 'telephone,' having your (or her) friends go and tell her that you like her.
Don't be afraid of embarrasement. Who cares what other people think?



[edit] TipsDon't hesitate. Once you're there, you're committed - don't beat around the bush and waste a lot of time. Be frank and come right to the point.
Don't make her feel like she owes you anything. That will only make her uncomfortable.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It hurts, but you won't die from it.
It would help if you had a life. It makes you look more appealing when you have interests of your own.
Make sure you know the "importants" about the girl you are going to tell: i.e., sexual orientation. It would be embarrassing if you devoted effort to a girl who only likes girls.
Make sure you look busy but not too busy. You want her to know you've got nothing but time for her.
Be prepared to live with your decision.
Don't Stress. No girl likes a guy who's stressed out.
Who knows? She might like you back.



WARNINGS! Make sure you have her on lock. If she finds out that you like her from someone else, it makes you look weak.
Don't cry if she says no. There are more fish in the sea.
Don't hold a grudge against her - not every pair is a match, if that makes sense. If you can still be friends, go for it. If you can't, don't force it. You'll only look worse than before.
Don't send her love notes if you just met her two days ago.
Don't throw subliminal hints at her after your first day of talking. It makes you look desperate!

Answer 3

I'm Not a guy but if Some guy were to tell me He likes me I would probably want him to ask me out to coffee or just something like I really like you would you like to go out sometime. The only thing I know you shouldn't do is Do it on the phone through text or on line it's best to do it in person.

Answer 4

You can play it slow, and just keep talking to her + getting close to her. Or you can just say I kinda like you, if she wouldn't mind you taking interest in her.

If it's at a playful stage and you guys are both fine with each other, just anything goes. Good luck!

Answer 5

Basically you have to be confident about how you tell her and avoid sounding arrogant about it. Tell her that there is no other way you can think about asking her, just that your interested in her and you would like to know if she feels the same.

Answer 6

Sure, why not? The very worst that could potentially happen is that she would laugh at you and that is very, very unlikely. Even if she did not welcome your attentions, she is likely to be polite and, if not, she isn't the kind of person you should like, anyway.

If you are shy, watch out for signals that she might welcome your liking her. Most often, in nature and among people, it is the girl who draws the attention so the fact that you like her might not be a surprise to her since she with subtlety might have caused you to "like her".

Answer 7

I think you should go on a date (two, three …) and try to spend more time with her, find out what she likes and try to do those things, and she will figure out that you like her!

Another way is to tell her directly, but I don’t think that is a good idea to do this!

Answer 8

If you're shy in person, the best way to go about things is to try and talk to her online where you will not face to face and will be able to talk to her easier. Let her know that way if you can't tell her face to face.

Answer 9

Here's an idea: someone posts this question about every three minutes on Answers. Why don't you go and look at some of the answers there?

Answer 10

Just go hey wats up can i talk to u in private, and be like ok i think i realy like u u wanna go out someday??? I understand if u dont, but thats ok shell have to say yes it works all the time

Answer 11

Just wait until she is not talking with anyone (she is alone), tell her you think she is a nice person, and you would like to be her friend.