My girlfriend and I have been living together for 6 months, she is an admitted alcoholic who occasionally blacks out. Whenever she blacks out she is very mean to me, she talks to other guys or accuses me of looking at other girls even though i don't. She has flirted with friends while blacked out and doesnt remember what happened. Well last friday once again she was being secretive and supposedly blacked out but was on Myspace checking out random guys profiles, then she goes on yahoo personals and checks out other guys profiles while she is hiding in the house making phone calls and deleting the history, oh and she always checks my stuff but i have nothing to hide. We did move in together early but I truly fell in love with her from the day I meant her, she had just moved from N. Dakota and I wanted her to live with me, Did we move in to fast? what do you think.
2007-12-08 16:08:49 · 2 answers · asked by Andrew L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You moved in with a cheating alcoholic that you barely knew and you think it's love? Grow up.
2007-12-08 16:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First she needs help for the drinking this seems to be the core of all the issues she is having and the issues in your relationship. Since you say you are in Love with her give her incentive to kick the bottle,go to treatment with her and promise engagement if she remains sober and cleans up. I am sure you fell in love with the sober version. If after a given period of time if alcohol wins you must leave for your own sake and future.
2007-12-08 16:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Canuck1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋