Friend asking for you-yes or no?
This is my idea. I tell my friend, who is a good friend of his, to tell him someone likes him. Give it a day or two. Then i have a different friend ask him if he likes me (or wants to go out with me??).. Is this a good plan yes or no? If not, what is a good plan?
2007-12-08 15:32:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. take your own advice: if you love him, TELL HIM! :)
2007-12-08 15:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by ♫How does she know?♫ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I would say first figure out for yourself if you like this person. If you do then just go over to him and tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. I wouldn't suggest having someone else go over to him and telling him that someone likes him cause then he might think its somebody else. Then when a different friend goes over and asks if he likes you he might say no because he thinks there's someone else out there who likes him and he would want to find out who that is. Or what could happen is he might be embarrassed to say how he truly feels about you to your friend, so he might say no when he's really thinking yes. I would say the best thing is to just go over to him and aks him how he feels about you.
2007-12-08 15:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by twingal01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Guys aren't impressed with people who are scared and timid. Just ask him yourself, just casually. Say something like, "Hey, you're pretty cool, we should go out sometime." Simple, right to the point and he'll be impressed that you did it all with out a wing girl. Trust me, guys are attracted to confidence and having someone ask the guy of your dreams out for you doesn't scream confidence to me.
2007-12-08 15:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Bad idea. Sounds like something a 4th grader would do. Talk to him yourself, get to know him better and vice versa. If he's interested in you then, he'll let you know himself. Keep your friends out of it.
2007-12-08 15:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by N L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a good plan stick 2 it dont let anyone else chande your mind that same plan worked for me except it was on a girl not a guy, cuz i am a guy. good luck
2007-12-08 15:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by takedown514 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That shows lack of confidence. Plus it will just make it more awkward to talk to him later. Don't get friends to talk to him. You should talk to him yourself. Be confident.
2007-12-08 15:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by User 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to their crap. if you are young , like pre tenth grade, go for it. i have great memories of those times. if you're older, then hell no, don't do that.
i have to edit this:
notice that all the guys say do it and all the girls say don't. it seems that girls don't have any clue what we like. do it
2007-12-08 15:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Algore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make sure the guys you ask bring it up subtly, instead of them just walking up and saying "Yo do you like this girl" or "Hey would you ever go out with this girl"
2007-12-08 15:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry the best idea is just talk to him ---- using someone else is fraught with problems ---- best wishes
2007-12-08 15:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel yourself!
2007-12-08 15:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no its really immuture if u like him just tell him
2007-12-08 15:37:56 · answer #11 · answered by shnaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋