Im from Bolivia and i met a guy from australia 5 months ago, he came to live with me and my family during 2 months, during that time he didnt pay a penny for anything, was giving everything to him (food, electricity, a car, everything!). After those 2 months he leave, and i found out i was pregnant, he promise me marriage, that we will sort it out either me going to australia or he moving in my country. With the time was more and more difficult find him to talk about the situation and now im 4 months pregnant and desperate about what to do. Im planning to to australia, and give birth there, because everything is a mess in my country, I do think will be the best for the baby. My questions are.. If i can give birth there without having troubles because im planning to go with a tourist visa. And if i get some support from any institution in legal advice to get to my baby the last name of the father, and get with it Child support, because i will be single mother. please help.
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3 hours ago
Obviously i dont think there is a single chance to get married, is the last of my thoughts. About medical service, i can afford it, what i want is a citicenship for my baby, and if is possible Child Support.
He is from Perth, i think law change from state to state in australia. Thank you again
1 hour ago
No, live in Australia, get the citizenchip, is nothing that i have in mind, i just want to get what is fair for the baby, and after that come back to my country, the child has the right to decide in the future where to live or not. Based on that is why im need of help
2007-12-08 14:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by Sortilegio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm sorry this happened to you but, the one thing I think may be a little difficult is finding him so that he can pay child support. If you know where he lives just get all the information you can about him try your best the more info the better. And as far as i know you do not have to have the baby carry his lastname in order to file for child support once the baby is born. The baby may have to go through a DNA test as will the father. But, the name you don't have to have right away or in order to get child support. Just be able to prove it's his baby and know how the child support enforcement agency can find him.
2007-12-08 15:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jane C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 03:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can give the baby any last name you choose. But this will not affect the father's child support obligations. Personally, I think it would be better for the baby to have your last name because the child will live with you, not the father. But it's your choice.
2007-12-08 15:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your family in your own country and raise your child. This guy is a loser, forget him.
2007-12-08 15:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie how sure are you that he's going to accept you once you're there ? Has all this been talked between the two of you ?
2007-12-08 15:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋