2007-12-08 14:41:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You move on and find someone who is interested in going out with you.
2007-12-08 14:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by Zsasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still remembering when I was your age I can relate :
The first thing that comes to mind is why, why don't she want to go out with me. You ask yourself all kinds of questions. Because, at a young age, rejection is not what the heart wants to feel, you may start to feel sorry for yourself, (I did) at times. You should look at other girls and know that there are other pretty girls out there. It's a huge ocean and there are more than one fish in it. Rejection is one of the most, if not the worst emotional pains a young girl or boy can experience while growing up. There should be a law against it. That is life and on the most beautiful of roses are thorns, that can hurt you. Always be ready to be poked by one. Moving on to look for one that has been cleaned of it's thorns is the best action to take at this time.
God Bless you and stay safe.
2007-12-08 23:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl...So I guess my answer is coming from that side of things---But I know that if a guy acts as though it really doesn't matter...That is more fascinating than a guy who acts desperate when turned down. It means he is confident in who he is as a person and his self-esteem isn't based upon those around him. It is very attractive.
Be yourself. And continue to be cool about life in general. And smile. (girls like that) :~) Good luck next time!!
2007-12-08 22:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live and let live. But if you really like her, wait a little while before asking her out again. Who knows? maybe her feelings have already changed since that time...Whatever you do, do not run after her or persuade her into saying yes, girls don't appreciate stalkers LOL
2007-12-08 22:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kapes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept it gracefully and keep it moving. It might sound wack but a few years ago, i asked this particular girl out. She said "no" but i stayed within my character and remained cool about it. After some time passed, SHE approached ME and said; "I remember when you asked me out and i said no. But now i see how cool you are and i like you so i wanna accept your offer." Try it. It worked for me.
2007-12-08 22:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of this. If you know that the 10th girl is a "yes," that means you have to get through 9 "no's." In fact, some one once told me that whenever you get a no, you should say, "Thank you, you just brought me one closer to a yes." Just wait...it'll happen.
2007-12-08 22:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by jv4life_13 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how she rejected you.. if she seemed regretful about it, there could be many reasons.. for example if one of her friends like u, she cant act on it..
if she was nice about it, then she just looks to u as a firend... etc
2007-12-08 22:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Priya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get my water gun and shoot myself a few times. Then I realize that nothing really happened to me other than her saying no. I haven't changed. Then I go and try another girl that might be a little more original that might say "Yes!" Good luck
2007-12-08 22:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still really like her make her jelous! i rejected my boyfriend when he first asked me out cause i didnt really know him, but then he started hitting on a friend, and i became really jelous! i got to know him better, and ended up asking him out. otherwise, you should move on or befriend her.
2007-12-08 22:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, ask her out again.
Otherwise, move on to someone else.
2007-12-08 22:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋