I have read about controlling men on a website and my bf has alot of those characteristics,i feel like i'm being controlled without even realising it.
I constantly carry phone with me and always check incase he calls,because he questions why i dont pick phone up.
He told me not to wear sexy tops unless i'm with him.
He get easily offended by slightest criticism.
He has attached to me quick and wants to live with and marry me,i heard abusive guys have quick involvement.
He makes me feel uneasy when he goes quiet.
He pushed me up stairs in a jokey way but i didnt like it.
He got angry when i talked about a guy friend.
Am i being paranoid or is something not right with him?
2007-12-08 14:33:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not paranoid. He is controlling you, it is not right.
Get out of this relationship as soon as you can. You'll regret it if you don't.
Tell your family, friends, and get support and help from those you know so that you can be safe. He might not react well to you dumping him.
God Bless and good luck.
2007-12-08 15:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be worried. I was involved with a girl like that, who had a profound effect on my mental well being.
These people take over your life without you knowing it.
When the relationship ended I felt a dark cloud had been lifted from me, and I could see reality again.
He certainly sounds insecure, and probably wishes to control out of fear of losing you, but if he has a need to live with you and marry you so quickly, you have to ask yourself why. Be careful.
2007-12-08 22:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yuck, dump the twit. He's a jerk and you being uncomfortable doesn't bode well. Your bf should be the person you are the most comfortable with in the world. Sounds like he's a real loser, rid yourself of him, he's a beast of burden.
2007-12-08 22:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by halee8202 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Halee --the controlling will just get worse until it turns to real abuse. Dump him
2007-12-08 22:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by elliemae2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh darl,get out while you still can! a lot of girls dont even see it comming until its too dam late consider this your lucky break,best of brittish to you.
2007-12-09 02:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by fozz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋