what would you do in this situtation?
My friend was on the phone with her boyfriend and stuff they were talking and stuff and she called me back crying. her boyfriends friend called her a whore, but the worse part was that her boyfriend agreed with him. So she called me crying and i called him 3 way call, and he told me he didn't call her a whore so i asked him that if he didn't why didn't he defended my friend and not let his friend insult her that way he just tells me that he didn't cause the guy was his friend so he diodn't do anything. My friend feels like **** and i'm telling her not to cry he's not worth her tears but she can't stop. then she called him back and stuff and she hung up on him and he was still on the line while we were talking so she didn't know went and checked he was and called her ***** for not talking plz help me! and remeber WHAT WOULD YOU DO IN THIS SITUATION?
P.S. they're 13 etc. so try to not to go overboard with the insults or comments ty :)
2007-12-08 13:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by Julia P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's too young to have these problems, and both of them are too young and immature to be dating. In this situation, I would dump the boyfriend. He should never just agree with his friend if his girlfriend is insulted. That means he has no respect for her or their relationship. It also means he cares so much about his friend's opinion that he does not speak his mind - which makes him spineless. I would lose him, and pronto. I would spend more time with my supportive friends than useless, horrible, spineless boyfriend.
2007-12-08 13:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the boyfriend. He can't have it both ways. He has to defend her when his friend speaks badly of her and he can't call her names just to go along with his friend.
This is her proof that he's not ready for a girlfriend. If she stays with him, he will just use her. You are never too young to learn that you don't stay with a guy who disrespects you.
2007-12-08 21:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that really sucks(even though they're young, everyone goes through this in life). If I was that girl I would have dumped him on the spot and never look at him again. She shouldn't worry about him since it seems that he wasn't concerned for her at all.
2007-12-08 21:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋