My gf just broke up with me just cuz i talk to alot of other girls, i cant help it, i get along with girls and i like to talk to them.....I dont even flirt with them, i just talk to them and joke around with them like friends do and she doesnt understand that she is the only girl that means something to me. She thinks i am losig interest in her and that i am gonna cheat on her, but if i stop talking to my friends that are girls, i just lost most of my friends. Idk how many times i have told her and treat her like the she is the only girl i love. I dont think i did anything wrong, i talked to my friends, i never ignored her to talk to them or gave her any less attention, she was just being a little selfish....I tried calling her but she didnt seem like she wanted to talk to me so i just told her that i will call her later, i wanna give her some time to think. What should do?...jasonohall@yahoo.com.....add me please cuz i wanna talk about it to someone who understands
2007-12-08 13:25:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there you go.. call her up now.. and tell her exactly what you wrote here. =) its perfect and explains your feelings well. and if she doesnt still buy it.. then that means she doesnt trust you and shes being too snotty.
2007-12-08 13:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by ninnx3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds REALLY insecure. I can sympathize with you as I generally prefer the company of males and I am a girl. This will probably not change about you so if she can't handle it there will be someone out there who can. It sounds like you've done everything to reassure her that you can, so I don't know what else you can do. What is the relationship like when you are getting on and how much of the time are you getting on? This should help you decide if it is in fact a good relationship. Hope this helps x
2007-12-08 13:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun , but appearances count and it looks to her like you have the potential to be a player, even if you aren't at this time. Next time back off the contact with the other gals and respect the one that you're with.
BTW - don't call her. She has probably had all she can handle with the situatiuon now. Give it a few days.
2007-12-08 13:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her go if she does not trust you enough to let oyu ahve friends than why do you want to keep her around?? True love will trust you. My boyfriend has friends that are girls and I do have a problem with some of them but I never make it into a big deal. I trust that he won't do anything. Just tell her that it is her loss and actually she is not the one if she can not trust you.
2007-12-08 13:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 03:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u tell her what u told us tell her u want 2 c it from her point of view and maybe she will c it from yours but us girls do get a little "intimidated" wen our bf is tlakin 2 tons of other girls even if its just as friends b open minded from where shes coming from o and u right about giving her a few days let her cool off and take all this in
2007-12-08 13:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by dancer! :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us....AND if she does agree to keep seeing you AND if you do talk to other girls...make sure you include her, put your arm around her while you are talking to the other girls...include her in the conversation, introduce her to your friends....I don't know if that will work, but it's worth a chance. Good luck!
2007-12-08 13:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by beaners1229 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are the kind of guy who has a lot of platonic female friends, then this girl isn't the one for you. You need a girl who is ok with you having a lot of female friends. Some girls can handle it and some girls can't. This girl can't handle it, she needs to be the only female in your life.
2007-12-08 13:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I know how she feels.
Girls HATE it when guys talk to other girls.
I can't help being worried when my crush is talking to other girls, even if we're not in a committed relationship.
It's just a natural instinct.
Stop hanging out with those girls, unless they mean more than your girlfreind
2007-12-08 13:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are not ready to be a "one woman man" and the only one in your relationship who knows that is your gal.
No problems here. Just play the field.
2007-12-08 13:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by Joe G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋