When a guy wants to know if girl has a boyfriend....?

Question

A coworker of mine wanted to know if I had a boyfriend. This is a guy I work around a lot , but don't really know or talk to that much. HE didn't actually ask, but another coworker I didn't know approached me with the "do you have a boyfriend. someone wants to know" thing. I responded yes I do, and asked why. She just said someone wants to know and walked away. She doesn't work there anymore, so I can't ask her anything.

I'm certain it was this guy because he was the only male there that day and he had been giving me some intense eye contact for a long time. He's started acting a little strange now when he sees me, I think it's pretty obvious it was him, so I don't know what to do. I do think the guy is cute, but like I said, I am unavailable.

Should I say anything to him? Do you think he was really interested or do guys just ask about any attractive girl they see?

Answer 1

he was interested, you are unavailable, no reason to say anything. It might embarrass him and make things really awkward at work.

Answer 2

Usually we ask about any attractive girl.

That being said, I'd wait and see what happens.

As for being 'unavailable', what? You're married?

Answer 3

Say,
"hey its pretty obvious you have a thing for me but, not to burst your bubble, but i have a boyfriend....im really sorry..you seem like a nice guy, but im taken"

Answer 4

hmm.
Maybe he does like you.
I think its ok to be taken and think another guy is cute.
Be honest and just say hey, sorry im taken i dont mean to burst your bubble or kill your hopes.
He should understand.

Answer 5

umm i think that he's interested. if they ask if you have a boyfriend or are married or not, that usually means that they would want to ask you out or something.


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