Why can't I find the guts to smack old school bully?

Question

I was teased at school for around 3 months by a lad who i wouldn't say is the hardest around. 2 years later i am still constantly thinking about him. On holiday i thought about him, christmas n birthdays i do, he has basically got the better of me and i torture myself for it (mentally not physically).

Tonight however i had the perfect chance to smack him. I was at a party n all day yday n 2day i had planned 2 hit him but wen it kum 2 doin it i bottled it. I would like to ask people 4 help to stop me thinking about him and help on why i couldn't hit him.

I am really annoyed with myself on why i didn't hit him :(

Answer 1

There are really two questions you are asking and I will try to explain my answers for you. The reason why you did not and should not smack the bully is you are better then he is. You do not need to fall to his level. You are way above his idea of life, you don't need to bully, belittle, beat up on or annoy any person for any reason. As for the thoughts you have for the idiot, just remember that you are better then he is for the above reasons. Once you get out into the "real" world he will be working for hourly wages somewhere while you go out and make something for yourself. You were and are the real winner when it comes down to him and you. Never forget that.

Answer 2

People like that will get what's coming to them, believe me, they don't get off scott-free.

You are letting him torture you by these memories. Tell yourself this was long ago and he is an idiot, jerk, insecure big wienie! : )

Let it go, it will continue to hurt you if you don't. Life is too short to let those people ruin us, right?

I give you a lot of credit for not flattening him at the party, that showed maturity on your part, good for you.

Answer 3

cuz your better than he is.your not a bully like him your a man.you can kill a person with kindness.

Answer 4

How do you think about him, like his face, the things he did to you? What?!