About 4 months ago, I met the love of my life. We both adore each other and have the most complete loving relationship of our lives.
About 6 weeks ago, I snooped into her email account. I don't know what possessed me to invade her privacy.
I deeply regret my actions.
Should I tell her or just let it go? How would you feel if your man did that to you?
2007-12-08 13:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, just don't tell her. she will lose trust in you. Don't do it again.
2007-12-08 13:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's the love of your life why do you feel the need to check up on her, and if you just let it go who's to say that you won't do do it again. I'm pretty sure that if you let her know about your actions she should and would be able to forgive you. I don't think it's that big of a deal unless she has something to hide. Me and my guy has been together going 10 years. I have done it him and him to me and we are still strong. Sometimes people do things just to make themselves feel better and stronger about their relationship. Sometimes being unsure of somethings about a person can make you go crazy. But if she feels the same way you do of course she might be upset in the beginning, but will be able to let it go because she does not want to let something so insignificant ruin a good thing. But then of course some women can be very childish, and if she is and makes this into something that it's not then in my opinion she's not the love of your life.
2007-12-08 13:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be happy if my man did it to me and it might cause a fight.
What were your reasons for snooping? Were you bored or do you have trust issues? How would she react if you told her? Would it cause a fight? How would you feel if she snooped in your email? Would you want her to tell you?
I think you should tell her, apologize, and tell her why you did it and why it is never going to happen again. Accept the fall out, that's the price you pay for snooping.
2007-12-08 13:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you deeply regret your actions. you should be completely honest with her-wouldnt you want the same from her??? if she has nothing to hide then she might just get mad for awhile. tell her you love her and were just afraid. if she really loves you.....it will work out.
2007-12-08 13:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my man did that to me I would feel that he has no trust in me.Obviously it seems that you feel guilty,so tell her so you can breath again.
2007-12-08 13:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell her anything. WHAT IS THE POINT. just dont do it again
2007-12-08 13:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋