she flirts with all my friends, and sits by them but rarely talks to me, she still talks to me but not when she is with a huge group of her friends? why. is she embarrassed to like me or something
2007-12-08 12:55:56 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think she likes you... she knows you like her so she avoids you. I'm sorry that's not what you want to hear. But I'm sure once you move on, she'll come around and at least be your friend.
2007-12-08 12:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may just not be ready to make a commitment to one person. If she is flirting with your guy friends in front of you, then to me, that really indicates that she likes this attention from other guys and likes to give it back. If she is your girlfriend, she should not be doing this to you. I could understand her not wanting to kiss and cuddle you constantly when in a big group of people because alot of people are uncomfortable with that, but her flirting with your guy friends and not paying attention to you is rude. I really think that she is not ready for a one person commitment, or maybe you and her just arent right for eachother. Dont waste your time on someone that is only going to make you feel down and bad about yourself. Just because you like someone does not mean they are good for you. A relationship should make you feel good about yourself. And dont justify the bad times by saying to yourself, " well there are some really wonderful times i have with her, so its ok if she makes me feel this way sometimes." That is one of the WORST things you can do to yourself. Dont settle for anything less than what you want because it is your life, no one elses. We only live once right? so make it the best and happiest you possibly can! Even if that means waiting a while for the right girl to come along! But just remember a relationship should make you feel GREAT about yourself everyday! I hope this helps!
this is one of my favorite quotes:
"the smartest people in life are the ones that know how to be happy"
:-)
2007-12-08 13:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try pulling her aside and talking to her when she's alone to find out if she does like you or if she just is using you for your friends. Mayve she feels pressured by her friends to ignore you and flirt with your friends. Whatever the reason find out and maybe you can have something/
Good Luck <3
2007-12-08 13:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not the girl for you. If she disrespects you now, what do you think the future will hold? Show her that you have self-respect and that you deserve to be treated better...by some other girl!!! Good luck to you and always be kind. Just let her go.
2007-12-08 13:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by ginap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is your REAL friend would talk to you and be friendly no matter who is around.
I think it's time for you to let go of the illusion that she is your friend and then you can find better people to hang out with.
2007-12-08 12:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she likes you but she wants it to be a secret. you know havent you ever liked someone, had an odd way of showing it, and kept it a secret for everyone? thats what she is doing. no i dont think she is embarrassed, and maybe she is shy around guys she likes. next time you two are alone just ask her.
good luck!
2007-12-08 13:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are in a group, maybe if u talk alot with your friends and make funny jokes and good conversation related to you or using alot of your opinions and ideas, she will be interested and talk to you.
2007-12-08 13:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thing she just wants to be part of a group by becoming your girl friend she might fill isolated and not part of the group don't push her give her time.
2007-12-08 13:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by john u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This exact thing happended to me except i'm a boy, hahaha. She may be jelous from you having so many fiends. You could do the same thing to her. Worked with me. good luck!
2007-12-08 13:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by hotshot396 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going out?
'Cause if you are, then you need to talk to her. 'Cause you can't just sit around & wait for her to either change or talk to you 'cause that's ridiculous. To be honest, she probably doesn't even realize she's doing it. Or, if she does, you definitely need to talk to her, because that's not right.
You just need to be ready for anything she says.
Not to bring about chaos, but whenever I did that to my boyfriend I was always subtly hinting to him that I didn't want to be with him anymore.
But, who knows? She's probably different than me anyway, so you just need to talk to her.
2007-12-08 13:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by kirstyn_x_duhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋