I have dated a lady friend three times, I think she is a nice person and would like to go with her to movies in the future but only as a friend. The Problem:
1. I think she may like me as a boyfriend but I do not feel that way towards her, only a friend. Should I tell her.
2. Dating cost way too much, first date $70.00, 2nd $40.00 3rd $50.00, I want to tell her to pay for herself next time, is it fair to do this.
If you have any wisdom on the topic please advise.
2007-12-08 12:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by cheezygrits 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be like " i really like you and i think you would make a really good friend. i hope you understand and i hope we can still hang out and still be really good friends."
She'll probably say "i understand"
and about the money think , after youve gotton the point across about being just friends she'll most likely pay for herself.
problem solved =D
2007-12-08 12:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by s_02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t believe you have any thing in common with your lady friend and would be better off keeping your friendship casual with no dating for right now. If in the future your friendship developes in to something close enough so that you feel comfortable paying the entire bill when you are on a date with her then maybe you will not mind her considering you as her boyfriend. I would ask her to consider going to a cheaper place on dates before I would even consider asking her to pay for her part of the date expenses if you are going to continue dating at present.
2007-12-08 20:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you date someone that you can not see in your future? If you are willing to go out with her than pay, because you know that you do not like her for anything else. So ! are you looking for an escort?
Question yourself, if your intention are good she will volunteer to pay for some of the expenses, if they are not then I hope the next time you ask her out she goes to the most expensive restaurant.
Are you willing to sacrifice a good relationship because it cost to much to get to know some one? I hope not
2007-12-08 20:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress how she's a good friend, and take other people with you to the cinema, if all of them pay off themselves she most likely will do.
2007-12-08 20:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dude you need to take her out for 1 more time and if u still dont feel it dump her
2007-12-08 20:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Apollo49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come out of the closet? You're gay.
2007-12-09 13:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Zach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋