theres this guy and everyone including me thinks he like me. hes my x bf because i broke up wit him(stupid me) and we hav been close friends. c lately hes been touching, hugging, complimenting me and telling me he loves me. he also hangs out wit me lot more than wit his older girl and guy friends (hes 2 years older). i think hes been tryin to get the two of us alone in a room. but then on this 1 day of the week he flirts wit sum of my friends (and me) rite in front of my face. is he trying to mke me jealous? but even after that i get this one long tight hug goodnight and im the only one that gets it. we hav talked bout things deeply before, we hav gazed into eachothers eyes and we have talked online. he has never said anything mean besides teasing me when we were younger. i really need to know if you guys think he likes me or im just overreacting. plz let me no as soon as possible and when you answer give me advice on what to do or what i should look for.This is really important to me!
2007-12-08 12:02:33 · 43 answers · asked by NiS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as if he likes you a lot. But... you broke his heart once before and so he is waiting for you to make the first move to apologize and ask him to get back with you.
2007-12-08 12:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by joker_32605 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ok by the sounds of it, he definietly still has feelings for you. I do think he likes you alot and probably wants to get back with you but for now he's just having fun by flirting with you and your friends in front of you. He might be playing hard to get because it is more fun. Do you want him back? Im guessing yes by what you have said. You need to make a move, you be the one to start something again, give him a kiss next time he cuddles you or touch him in a sexual way to get his attention. Snap him back up before someone else does! Lifes to short to wonder and wait :)
2007-12-08 12:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jayde A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you or he doesn't know what he wants. Guys are like that. Don't put out and don't give in. Play hard to get instead of being so easily available. Just blow him off pretty much. If he likes you, he'll insist on being around you. If he's pushing on getting you into a room or to do things with him - don't. It doesn't make him 'like' you. You'll just be known as an easy girl, which is probably embarassing. Just hold your own. Relationships are like war, it's all about strategy. =)
2007-12-08 12:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Christabell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it definitely sounds like he still has a think for you and you should let him know how you feel. He seems to be unsure of how you feel which is probably why he was flirting with your friends. Flirting is harmless as long as he doesn't act on it and it seems like he would never do that because while he only flirted with them, he gave YOU the meaningful hug. You should go for it!
2007-12-08 12:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what lady.. never get yourself complicated in a relationship as life is too short & time is precious...
Just dump him.. cause even if he loves you he's two timing you too at the same time...
Is he worth your tears.. of lovingness..
Should you give in even if he flirts around with your friends???
Today they are friends but tomorrow he'll say that he had fallen for your friends instead of you.. so not to waste your precious times..
Give love to somone whom really appreciates you.. dearie..
Cheers
2007-12-08 12:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say..you broke up with him (stupid me)..i assume you regretted this choice, and now hes offering you a second chance.
Grab it with both hands, don't let go and make it work this time !! Then come back on Yahoo answers, and let us all know when the wedding is !!
Good Luck
xx
2007-12-08 12:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he likes you OR something has happened in his life that makes him really glad that you are in his life. He wants you to know that he appreciates you. If you two have been so close, then ask him what is going on in his life and, if you want to be with him, then ask him how he feels about you. If you two really are close and good friends, then he wont think twice about talking about it. Hope this helps.
2007-12-08 12:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have everything tagged correctly, but you might not.
Seriously some guys will do everyting for a score/notch in the belt, so I'd suggest taking things easy and taking time.
If he is really interested, he will be true and continue to be interested.
2007-12-08 12:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Terryc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out if he still feels the same way about you and let him know how you feel. It sounds like he was just trying to get a reaction out of you with your friends, so he would know how you feel without asking. Guys do that sometimes, so they know how a girl feels. That way we don't get rejected by the girl when we ask them out, because we know how they feel ahead pf time. I hope this helps you out.
2007-12-08 12:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by specialopsvet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a good chancwe he does like from what you say he is hugging you says he loves you and all that obviously he does you have talked deeply b4 sit him down and talk to him again and tell him you want to know why he is doing all of this!
2007-12-08 12:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by mom4dafirst time Oct 7thGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋