when your on a date, its rude to ask how old someone is... so how do you find out?
2007-12-08 12:01:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask what her birthday is with year
look at her license
or last one, stalk her to find out
2007-12-08 12:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to be rude to ask someone their age. if you ask politly then its ok. you can say "excuse me but out of curiosity how old are you"? but one the NEVER ask someone that on a first, second, or third date. always wait untill the fourth date because thats the date when you two really start to get to know each other
2007-12-08 12:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Puppygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her questions, such as what class year she was in or heck...Just come out and ask her! There is no other way, unless you want to search her online. Quite often their age will pop up. But unless you want to feel like a stalker, I would just ask. She may be wondering how old you are too. I don't think it is rude.
2007-12-08 12:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it's rude, maybe tell her how old you are and ask her. She should tell you her age. Make sure it's at an appropriate situation, don't just ask for no reason. If she asks why, just say that you want to protect yourself. If she doesn't answer, she maybe hiding information from you.
2007-12-08 12:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt find it rude! Just ask!! I mean the of a date IS to get to know the person.
2007-12-08 12:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why you want to know and why it matters. I wouldn't just come out and ask unless you find yourself with an open window. If you really need to know, and don't find an opening, pay attention to anything she says about siblings, school, or her career. If you can get a history on how she came to get her job, like how long she's been doing it, when she graduated etc, you can usually do the math and figure it out.
2007-12-08 12:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rude to ask how old someone is on a date. But you can be sneaky about it if you'd like! Girls like to talk and give details, so if you ask... how old were you when this happened, or... do you have any siblings how much older / younger are they.... I don't know. Check her drivers lisence when she goes to the bathroom?
2007-12-08 12:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. It is not rude to ask that type of question. Being forward helps the relatioship get off to the right start.
2007-12-08 12:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Erin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probley should ask her it would be easiest. But maybe finding out what year she finished school or having a look at her drivers license, or talking about your age.
2007-12-08 12:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she goes to the bathroom, look in her wallet. Or serioulsy make a joke about age, then she'll kindly correct you. Kinda like you 52 right? and she be like hell no Im 33.
2007-12-08 12:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by roguetrader12002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO WAIT UNTIL THE CONVERSATION COMES UP. yOU CAN ALSO TRY ASKING WHAT YEAR DID SHE GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL BUT DONT SAY OUT OF THE BLUE, YOU NEED FIND OUT A WAY TO START A GOOD CONVERSATION.
2007-12-08 12:05:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋