What is the point of love?

Question

I think love is stupid. I trust no one and if I had a girlfriend, she would not love me and I would not love her. I do not want to love and I want no one to love me. I would find it funny if someone could actually love me besides my parents. No women would ever love me. She would take advantage of me and step all over me. Power is more to me than love. My goal is to control the world behind the scenes and manipulate everyone and laugh at them. And women also lead to kids because women like kids and men do not. I have Asperger's and I don't want to worsen the overpopulation problem + give a kid Asperger's because it is genetic. In a time when World War 3 is about to occur, I cannot see why people want to have kids. I see a nuclear war coming soon. Maybe that will solve the overpopulation problem.

Answer 1

sound like you use your condition as an excuse for everything.

you're so bitter. get help. lighten up some.

Answer 2

The point of love is to make people (and other creatures) feel good, happy, and contented. It also serves to help the entire web of living creatures function better when some creatures care about the well-being of others.

Now your turn: What is the point of controlling the world behind the scenes and manipulating and laughing at everyone?
Anyway, that's not an achievable goal. You can control some things from behind the scenes and manipulate some people, and laugh at anything you want, but you could never control or manipulate everyone.
Some people with Asperger's (and some without Asperger's) may not be able to love and be loved or to have children and families, but most are able to.
I wonder why you think you are so unlovable? I know a number of people with Asperger's who are pretty lovable and also care about other people. If you think your behaviors make you unlovable, figure out how to change them and do it.
The point of love: It makes people feel good. You don't sound as though you really feel good.

Answer 3

So what now?

So redundant, your mother is a women...and you state that no woman will ever love you.

And you say you don't want to worsen the overpopulation problem. Then why your parents, have try hard to live you and love you in this world. You are a fool, you are useless in this world also. Because you are one of the people living in earth. If you you do not want any problem. You have to suicide yourself. You won't help anyone, anything. So deviant to think only on your own and the negative side. So just back off dude.

Answer 4

I agree with not wanting to over populate, but I think somewhere your a little insecure (no offence). But I think you just cant say no one could ever love you. Dont think that because with the attitude you have right now, you will die alone. That is the greatest challenge of all in a relationship, trusting the other person, but if you could experience it atleast once insted of shuting you back to it, I think you will open up to a different side and your preception of love will change. I have no dought that I sound like a cheesy guidence counceler because I {somewhat} do, but its true. I hope will be able to trust someone and find a little compassion in yourself. Manipulate and taking over the world and having power is nice, i have to agree, and like you, I to want power and to become a leader. But you dont want to become consumed in it that you are the next Hitler. You should find some balance in your life, then try and take over the world or start the next nuclear war.

Answer 5

You sound really unhappy. Have you ever saw that movie the The Squid and the Whale? That may answer about love and you will definetly be able to relate.
Did you know if the all the countries detinate their nukes the will not be a population at all. It will be the end of the world. Nobody will be able to survive the chemicals in the air.

Answer 6

there is a point in love. don't you understand u were a child too. and if ur parents haven't found each other you wouldn't exist. if no one loved in the world no one would exist. and people want to have kids because for some couples children are a joy in life and bring happiness. yea sometimes its hard to raise a kid. but hey! its part of life. and you have probably heard this alot but one day u will find someone and then you will realize. I'm in love! you may not feel in Right away but you will. but only if you have a positive attitude towards it. like u cant feel sorry for yourself and just think I'm going to find someone b/c that's not how love works. and i know one day your going to remember this and your going to laugh.

Answer 7

Given everything you said above, do yourself and the world a favor and get a vasectomy. That will solve your worry about passing on the Asperger's and you personally would not be contributing to overpopulation nor putting a child in the future you see.

Answer 8

Dude don't be so pesimistic. Men do too like kids. Love is feeling so strongly about someone that you put them first. When you love someone you are a better person around them and all of life is so much easier. Men were made to need women in every sense. We need them for life. The reason you can't feel love is becuase you are so self centered. I'll bet you don't even like yourself that much do you? You will when you forget yourself and start serving others.

Answer 9

If love is stupid and being alone is so great and this is because of Asperger's, then why wouldn't you want your kid to have the disease? After all, wouldn't you want your kid to have the same wonderful life you now claim to have because of Asperger's?

Answer 10

Dude it sounds like you have been feeling like this for a while!! maybe you should give the whole finding someone to love another chance. what do you think?

If we never felt pain we could feel the good stuff either... keep that in mind too!!

Answer 11

Well they say the nuculer war isnt coming 2 soon and just find a true lover that will not step all over you and will understand when you say dont have kids because they will get your sickness.