Ok... this girl i have gotten to know well told me that she loves me like a brother, but i love her in a VERY different way. I have not told her...yet, but she did ask me if i loved her. I know she ment like a sister so i was just quiet when she asked. She sais i am a very nice person that she trusts and cares about. She said she tells me things she would not tell anyone els but she just loves me like a brother.... How can i fix this???
2007-12-08 11:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. You two are on totally different levels of love right now. She's specifically telling you that she loves you like a family member in an effort to also tell you that she isn't interested in having you as a boyfriend. It sounds as if she's being very clear that she isn't interested in you on a romantic basis, yet she values your friendship. It's difficult to fix situations like this...I've never personally confronted one myself, but I understand its implications. I would suggest sharing with her your true feelings because you have nothing to lose compared to what you can gain. I fear that the response will be negative, but it depends on your ability to speak from the heart and specifically explain to her that being just friends is incredibly difficult because you love her more than that.
2007-12-08 11:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Tim G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, u want to be honest with her, but u know it is just being rejected. I mean take a chance, tell her u love her, but make sure it isnt just out of the blue so she isnt in an awkward position that will end up hurting one of u. don't try to make her fall in love with you, because it might just ruin a worth while friendship. but if u know that she will probably never like u love u like that, dont feel bad, cause wit the trait she tells u u have, u will definitely find a girl who loves u like more than a brother.
2007-12-08 19:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by colombian_shortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear lol I had the same problem but other way round
I saw him like my brother when he told me he loved me
You can't make her change about how she feels about you
however you can be honest and if she is a true friend she wont let it effect your relationship
Good Luck
xXx
2007-12-08 19:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, i used to love my friend, in a LOVE way, he loved me as a sister, we dated before this happened and his mom broke us up, all you can do is be yourself and see what happens...
good luck
blessed be!
2007-12-08 19:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Candystripedlegs93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You cannot force or wish a person to have feelings for you that they don't .
2007-12-08 19:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋