2007-12-08 11:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by rubburduckky 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Be willing to listen to her when she talks. Hold her hand, give her a hug. Let her cry.
2007-12-10 02:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your friend, you may or may not want to ask how she's doing. The best thing to do is listen. Let her talk or just sit and stare. Hold her hand, let her cry. Just be adaptable to her moods and always be by her side. There may be times when she just wants to be alone, but let her know you're right there if she needs you. People generally suggest bringing food. This is a good idea since the last thing on her mind is eating. Don't go for sweet stuff. Grab a bag of baby carrots and head over for a girl talk and some healthy munchies. She may be in a funk for quite some time and talking about other things can be very rewarding, too. Read her body language and react accordingly.
2007-12-10 16:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by aidanoconner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something that your friend has to work out for him/herself. The best thing that you can do is just be there and be open to anything they say without judgement, without saying that you understand (because you don't). You need to show that you are there regardless of how they feel or act. You need to be a friend, and sometimes this is the hardest thing we can do. Put your own feelings aside and let your friend express theirs to aid in the healing process.
I hope this helps.
2007-12-08 11:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Joe B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your friends mother but just being there for here in time of need and comfort her be there so she have someone to talk to I will be in pray for her and you and her and your family also because a death of a love one is devastating and she need someone know to stick by her and comfort her to let her know that you care. i know it's hard but be a friend and just keep talking to her and comfort her she really need you know.
2007-12-08 11:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer.silver70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bake something and take it over and tell her you are there for her if there is anything she would like help with. Pray with her.
2007-12-08 11:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Steiner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for the family and your mom.
2007-12-08 11:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and stay beside her she need company this days
2007-12-08 11:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Prestige Words 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her. thats the most you can do.
2007-12-08 11:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋