Im 16 years old and my friends all have there licenses and girlfriends adn stuff and i get left out of stuff, i tried to talk to my parents for consling they arent looking at all, my shoulder has a hurt nerve or muscle or something and they said they will look for an orthopedic but that never happened, my life is just going down hill, i tried many times to kill my self, I NEED HELP! PLEASE I DONT EVEN NO WHERE ELSE TO TURN! My friends ditch me for the girlfriends, but when we hang out they invite there girlfriends and ignore me i cant find a girl because "im a jarhead" according to some girls. the girls i like im not sure if they even wanna talk to me. I NEED SO MUCH HELP! Please im sick and tired of being lonley, and depressed all the dam time. I am seriously always in my room during weekends i need help!!!! PLZ HELP ME! I tried to kill my self and i dont no wat to do! I...I cant keep living like this its making me even more miserable, and its making me think even more about sucide.
2007-12-08 09:01:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
i run Track and im in Civil Air Patrol an Air Force Auxliary, and theres a few members i can talk to (family) but the only thing is that my family is in a HUGE feud and im not aloud to call anyone she is in a fight with :\ which is more then 3/4 of my family so i cant talk to any others. i cant seem a girl i think every girl talks trash behind my back i dont think they like me as a friend PLZ i need help! im getting sucide thoughts alot!
2007-12-08 09:02:28 · update #1
Well, just try to find some new friends,
Don't ditch your old ones, just find some people to talk to.
Or just try to make a good reputation.
Then a girl you like will actually talk to you.
You could just talk to them and tell them that you want to spend some time with them without their girlfriends.
2007-12-08 09:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by xxoutcastxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My... You are in a tough spot there. So let's try to sort it all out. So you're 16, you've got no license and your parents aren't driving you to the doctor or helping you get your own license, and you're all lonely. Heck. I'd feel awful too!
Now, while being lonely is what is killing you, it seems that there are three things you need right away - license, a visit to the doctor about your shoulder, and - an absolute must- a visit to a good counsellor. And you can't do it all by yourself. You need to get your parents to take your concerns seriously, drive you to the doctor, and help you with your license. So you need to act like a grown up, and get your parents to help you with your concerns. Talk to them, seriously. Then follow up. ("Mom, have you made the appointment that you said you would?"). Also, what's all that - whom you are allowed to talk to or not stuff - that's not a way to treat a person. Make it clear to whomever is perpetuating this feud that you will not be drawn into it, it is an unfair and unjust burden on you, you're just a kid and would they please sort their own stuff out without involving you. Inform them all calmly - be a grown-up about it. If it becomes too much, talk to a trusted adult at school.
When you have your licence, and talk to a good counsellor, your life will be better. Just hang on there. Join some other online groups, too - you can talk to so many kids all over the world!
2007-12-08 17:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by oleowl_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can seem really unfair at times and it's even more difficult when you feel that you got no one to talk to. Your life is so valuable and by what you have said you have a lot to give to this world! It might not seem like it now but PLEASE believe me you are important to many people even if you don't think so. You've done something positive tonight and asked for help on here. That's the first step, your of age to make an appointment with your GP who will take you seriously, ask for help or a referral to be seen my the mental health team, they are lovely people who will be able to offer you the right help. In the meantime go and have lay down and have dim lighting in the room, play some quiet upbeat music and chill for 10 minutes and think about all the good things in your life, now right them down. If you have a phone in your room give the Samaritan's a call, it is confidential and they will be able to give you advice on what to do and where to go and get some help. I really hope you start to feel better soon. Take care.
2007-12-08 17:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! I've been there, done that. High school is the most difficult time for a person in my opinion. I remember well my high school days. I was a "misfit" also...socially awkward and not in the "in-crowd". All I know to say is that when you get out of school, it will magically all disappear believe it or not. Just hang in there. Go to your parents, tell them you're suicidal and you want mental health help. They should respect you for saying that and should be glad that you recognized it and have the courage to seek help. God bless. Hang in there.
If your'e eventually able to see a counselor/therapist/psychology, spill your guts to them, don't hold back. That's where the root of the problem is. They can't help you if you don't tell them how you're feeling about everything.
2007-12-08 18:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mental health counselor and I strongly recommend that you call the crisis hotline right now. 911 will get you there. So will 211 If there is someone around that you trust, have them help you. Don't wait. I can sense that you are a cool person and we need you to make up for all of the jerks out there. :D Don't wait.
2007-12-08 17:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by smiday1097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's someone in your family that you think would be good to talk to, I wouldn't avoid it just because someone else is in a feud with them. Call them on the phone and arrange a secret meeting. Talk to your family and friends and ask for their help.
2007-12-08 17:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by hottotrot1_usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I am 16 years old guy and i kno how u feel. 2 years ago my brother comitted sucide and I miss him all the time. PLEASE! don't do it! Talk to someone. I kno you said there's no on in your family u can talk to, but you gotta talk to someone. Go to a clinic and talk to a doctor. It's not worth it. You have alot to live for. I wish I lived close to u so that we could talk. em me tiemeon@yahoo.ca
2007-12-08 17:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by tiemeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel i tried to kill my self lots aswell
but ull get thru it
if u want u can talk 2 me if u live in nz
em bianca4jessemccartney@hotmail.com nd i will giv u my cell numba ova that...
2007-12-08 22:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i spend my weekends at home alone..yeah i feel depressed sometimes..but i wouldn't kill myself...!
your young, you'll get a gf! just wait !
don't kill yourself..you've got a long way to go..you'll make new friends..or your friends will realize what tey're doing and apologize to u...just wait
2007-12-08 17:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋