Ugh my heart is broken, what should i do?
i started liking this guy like last year ..we flirted all the time and what not and we both liked eachother(well at least it seemed that way) . he would like always come really close to me and joke around with me and when we're switching classses he always makes me laugh.
BUT...
a week ago he was talking to this kid in my class how this girl Rebecca likes him in another school...and i was like "yeah right he wouldn't go out with her" but then 1 month ago they started dating..and it seriously makes me sick to my stomach to see them together. what should i do? i feel like bursting into tears everytime i see them together and in school now he doesnt act the same as he used to. what do you guys think? hes friends always ask r u 2 dating? then he would say no, then hes friends would say he likes me, n that him n rebecca aren't really dating, hes just trying to get me jealous, but idk, wat do u guys think??
2007-12-08 08:58:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen ppl, he just called which he hasnt done in so long, n said that his gf just said that she didn't really like him n only did that to get this other boy jealous, n now hes upset, what should i do ask him out??, n try to make him feel better or wat help me!>!>!?!
2007-12-08 09:04:29 · update #1
again ppl i asked him out once, but he never answered me.... also plz dont swear cuz i HATE it when ppl sware , its really annoying!! n i have never cried, but i do get upset n feel like it but i NEVER do!!!
2007-12-08 09:07:10 · update #2
He's not trying to make you jealous, he likes and is dating Rebecca. He only likes you as a friend so pick up all the broken pieces of ur heart and superglue it back together and move on. Too many fishes in the sea to waste another second crying over this one.
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2007-12-08 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you know for a fact that they are dating and actually going out with each other? If so, how long has it been going on?
If you don't know then find out now.
If they aren't then this is just a smokescreen to make you jealous - which means he really cares about you.
If they are an item then you need to be patient, dignified, controlled and not show your disappointment/heartache. Their relationship might not last long. So if/when it does finish you will be in pole position to get back in there.
2007-12-09 13:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouchh.... :( well you could either talk to him and ask him.. i think that would be the best thing to do. Just ask him if hes really going out with her, or if he likes u. (if he says yes then yay good for u, if he says no, just try to play it kool, say that its good cause people told u that he does and u just wanted to make sure that he doesnt, and that u guys can still be friends.)
or you could forget about him.. i mean, if he really is dating her but it seems like he likes u, hes either cheating on her (which is bad) or he's leading u on (which is also bad). So i guess its better to find out now than later when u guys are together that hes an ***. good luck!
2007-12-08 17:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes Rebecca. Stop crying and don't let anyone ever see you reacting this way. Girlfriends come and go. If he sees or hears you acting this way, he will not date you when Rebecca is out of the picture. Get another boyfriend. I think he is dating her but he is a nice guy and he wants you to be happy, too. Date another guy. He may be back. But don't tell any of your friends you still like him and don't cry ever again over a guy around other people.....they will begin avoiding you.
2007-12-08 17:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
u need 2 go straight to him and tell him that u r in love with him and see what he says, either he loves u 2 or hes really dating her but i assure you the pain right now is the worst and confronting him will bring you less pain either way.
or
get really pissed at him for trying such a childlike game and start making eyes and flirting with some other guy at school and ignore the one you want and see what he does
but honestly id just ask him if he knows your in love with him and how does he feel about you.
send him an email if you cant do it face to face.
2007-12-08 17:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He propbably is, I find heartbreak seems to be one of the most hardest things to get over, personally I haven't had a love but so many people I know have been really badly deceived. Try and not think about it so much, try to keep yourself busy
2007-12-08 17:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you cant help that he is dating someone else
just be a good friend to him and respect his desicion.
if they break up, then you will be there for him.
and next time maybe you should just ask him out instead of waiting for him to ask you out.
but untill then just try to get over it and focus on something else.
2007-12-08 17:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see why you started liking him because of all the joking you two did but if you really like him let him know because you are just hurting yourself not confronting him.
2007-12-08 17:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks you're too smart for him. He could be scared because the flirting in the halls (to him)was sort of a relationship and he was afraid to take it any further because you may intimidate him. He was afraid of rejection.
2007-12-08 17:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by jahshoowuh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg same thing is happing to me
I think you should ask him out
dontr be scared worst he could do is say no
if it comes to that then just be like ok
r u cool with being friends
you should email me with some updates kk my email is topping2011@yahoo.com
thanks
hope this helps
2007-12-08 21:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋