my boyfriend and i had been going out for almost two years.. and it started out really well until these past few days, it started to fall apart.
i care alot about him and i do really love him, but it doesnt seem like he feels the same way about me anymore..
he doesn't do the things that he use to do, i don't feel like i'm his priority anymore! all he talk about is his car and about cars and he chooses his friends over me anytime.
i don't want to lose him bcuz i love him, but at the same time he always ending up hurting me. all we do these past few days is argue and yell at each other. we barely even talk at night anymore or hang out after school.
what do i do? is that a sign of letting it go? =\
2007-12-08 06:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try not to freak out. in know it's scary when changes confronts you but let's give him the benefit of the doubt.sometimes guys just need a breather.it doesn't mean they love us less. that's just how they are.try not to center your world around him,instead ,find other things to enjoy ( not another guy to enjoy,hehe.joke!;p).it's really unhealthy for your lives to just revolve around each other..go out with your friends,spend time with your family,do something worthwhile..give him time to miss you and if you can help it, don't nag. let him feel how wonderful life is when he's with you. just be the kind of girl he fell in love with! =)
2007-12-08 06:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be. You really need to talk to him about it. That's the only way it can get better. Tell him that you miss the days when y'all talked everynight about everything and anything, and the days when y'all weren't so busy to hang out. The most important thing about bringing something like this up, is to never accuse him of anything. Never say "you always choose your friends over me." or anything like that. That will make him get defensive and nothing will get accomplished. Instead say "we're both so busy we never hang out anymore, and i miss that." trust me, it goes a whole lot smoother that way.
2007-12-08 06:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy who feels the same way about you and forget about it
2007-12-08 06:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about this and it might be a sign of letting it go, but I don't know. Talk to him about this.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-08 06:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋